Me and my girlfriend(ladies only)?

Question

First and formal,I dont want to hear "You're too young".So if ur gonna say that don't answer this question. My girlfriend and i have been dating for two years now,we're both 14. No one our age has stayed together that long. She's a virgin and i'm a virgin,we've planned on se x. I am very prepared,she will take BC a month in advance.Yes i am going to use a condom,spermicidal lubricated of course. But,before that,i want to eat her out.She is a virgin,i'm hell of sure.I won't catch anything from eating her out,right? I've frequently heard people on here say she could have been born with something,but if she was born with something,wouldn't it be obvious? But i want to eat her out,we want to have se x,but have no place to. So i figured i could at least eat her out,i really want to.Any advice?

Yes i really love her,what young couple do you know that stayed together for two years.

Jesus freak got it completely backwards,did you just hear my precautions.I know it's a sin,but i really want this.I'm repenting afterwards.

Just cause ur immature and not old enough for se x,don't come to me saying eew.

Idiot,no we have not had sex,we're both virgins.

bigmouth is sooooooooo off mentally.Most kids age dont?,Be serious.

I said we don't have a place to have sex,not a place to eat her out.Thats a quickie,many places for that.But since she's a virgin,we obviously can't do quickie.

Answer 1

Lots of good precautions. I was that young, too. Go ahead with all the plans and try to wait until no one is home at either house. Sorry, Moms and Dads, but it's going to happen and at least these two are being careful.

Answer 2

Just remember this...all these feelings you are having now. The excitement, the anticipation, the wonder....as soon as you do this - they will be gone. Neither of you will ever get them back. What you will gain may or may not be worth it. My guess is...it won't...only because at such a young age you are still lacking some of the things that can make sex amazing (confidence, maturity, perspective)

I was young, about as young as you, when I experienced these things. So, I am not just saying this to scare you and I'm not just some old person. I am just saying that before you do this you should realize that it will change EVERYTHING, and most likely, not for the best. Maybe you have been together for 2 years because you haven't added this element (which always complicates everything)

Just think about it some more. You are smart about taking precautions, but if you are doing this at such a young age...you aren't THAT smart. Okay?

If you think you are SO ready and that being together for 2 WHOLE years really means anything...then why not make an even bigger statement and show how mature you really can be, by waiting....

Sex is NEVER about just sex...and once you open that door you are opening your relationship up to all sorts of complications, problems, and issues. Make sure you are ready for not just the "fun stuff" but for all the relationship issues and complications that come along with having a more adult relationship.

Answer 3

Sounds like you are making a informed decision. I'm glad to hear that your girlfriend is on birth control and you plan on still using extra protection. If you are going to do it, I'm glad you are being smart about it. Highly unlikely that she was born with an STD. But, you can always ask her if you really want to know. Personally, I think most people have sex too young, myself included. There are 20 year olds that aren't mature enough to handle sex. You do have to remember, though, that birth control isn't 100% effective. My sister -in-law got pregnant while she was on birth control. Would you be ready to handle that if your girlfriend ended up pregnant? Are you financially able to take care of a baby?
Those are questions that have to answered truthfully before you decide. It does happen, I got pregnant when I was 18 too. Good Luck and I hope that you make the right choice for you.

Answer 4

Actually you can catch an STD by eating her out. Even if she's a virgin, she may have unknowingly contracted an STD some other way (like maybe she helped someone who had an STD that was bleeding and some of their blood got on an open wound she had). Sure the theory is a bit out there, but it IS still possible, so be careful. Herpes doesn't always show, they do breakouts. Some people go for YEARS without knowing they have it. And getting herpes on your mouth area would SUCK, so definitely be careful. Good job on the precautious planning, by the way, and make SURE you both stick to it. And remember, even if you do some dry rubbing, if some of your pre-ejaculation gets near her (like before you get the condom on), even with the BC pill, she can still get pregnant.

Answer 5

umm eww.im also 14 and a girl,and ewww.you are too young.(im not say'n im not,we are the same age i just said that)i mean,God created sex for mariage.
WHEN A MOMMY AND A DADDY LOVE EACHOTHER VERY MUCH....
dose that sound famialer?
besides,if you want to do this sooo bad,you should be able to wait.and if you dont,dont go crying to people when she gets pegnait and you are a father and have to quit skool at age 15 or 16 and get a job to support the kid.and if you dont do that,she may think sucide.so if you have sex now,you lose either way.

Answer 6

im sorry if you didnt want to hear this, but YOU ARE TOO FREAKIN YOUNG!!! you are fourteen years old!!!! not even legally able to get a driving permit. what the hell are you thinking?

i really dont care how long you both have been dating but come on now. you cannot really consider having sex at the age of fourteen.

wake up!!!!!! and for all the people who are advising him to do it, get a grip you sickos.

Answer 7

OK FIRST OF ALL IF YOU HAVE NO PLACE FOR SE X
WHERE DO YOU PLAN ON EATING HER OUT AT??? DUH.
2nd IF SHE PLANS ON TAKING BIRTH CONTROL BEFOR
SHE HAS TO HAVE A PAP DONE FIRST,SO IF SHE HAS
ANYTHING YOU'LL KNOW. 3rd I SORRY BUT I HAVE TO SAY
YOUR TO YOUNG,BUT AT LEAST YOU GUYS ARE TALKING
ABOUT BEING SAFE,USEING BIRTH CONTROL N' YOU
ALSO USEING A CONDOM,MOST KIDS YOUR AGE DON'T
HELL MOST KIDS OLDER THAN YOU DON'T.. JUST DON'T
RUSH ANYTHING.

Answer 8

If you need advice then...you're too young. Get educated first!

Answer 9

buy a dental dam, it's for oral sex go to a "condom store" and you'll find it there or use cling wrap...seriously. always use protection because it's better to be safe then sorry

Answer 10

Just be careful you don't get caught when you're "going south".