me and then getting bored. im being used but i dont know how to tell before this happens if i am going to be used or not. help!
2006-09-03 15:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Hilaire 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
just be yourself... it always works... dont try and hide your peresonality.. let them know and then, love you for who you really are...
2006-09-03 15:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by jana(^-^) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you focus on yourself and your plans in life (career, friends, where you want to live, etc.), then nobody can really 'use' you, since you won't become dependent upon them. Sometime you might meet someone who realizes the importance of the individual person, and the two of you will decide to join forces against the multitudes of sleepwalking, drunken 'daters' out there.
Love is just an addiction. A relationship requires two people of some worth to make promises for a future. The two are only related because the first one helps you put up with the second one until you get used to it.
2006-09-03 22:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you behave in a relationship? Are you rushing things? You need to get to know them as friends first. Are they who they say they are? You find that out with time.
Are you needy and clingly? Nobody likes that. Just let time unfold and see what happens. Don't get emotionally attached too soon. Don't read too much into anything. Be cool. Men like to chase, not be chased.
2006-09-03 22:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to get to know people and then, sometimes, you don't always get on with the people you are dating. I don't think you are being used.
However, if you are sleeping with them to try and get them to turn into relationships, then you are doing the wrong thing. Don't give them EVERYTHING they want.
2006-09-03 22:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date. Dont be used. If they want a relationship with you they can have that first, then after they have proved themselves wothy of your affections, then you can start dating with stringent guidlines in place. You'll be happier.
2006-09-03 22:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long do you date them before you ask them to get in a relationship?
2006-09-03 22:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know the feeling just be honest and tell them what you feel is right and if the relationship does not work then i was not ment to be is what my mama always told me
2006-09-03 22:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by dramamama93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that thing is called one way attraction...lol.. meaning that those boys u date and dont want more just dont want u 2 to be something more than just friends...
2006-09-03 22:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you I am in the same boat, 'cept looking for a relationship for a woman. Hey don't forget, us guys...many of us don't mature.....for a long....long.....time. lol don't worry! keep trying!
2006-09-03 22:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guys you are dating arent interested in serious commitment. just keep on looking, there's bound to be someone out there for you.
2006-09-03 22:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so needy and push the guy.
Let things happen slowly.
2006-09-03 22:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋