I need opinions/stories on this issue. Have you ever had it out with a friend and tried to resolve the issue but they didn’t want too? Did it end your friendship? Did you ever think about them again? Did you ever see them again, if so what was the feeling you got? How did you get over it?
2006-09-03 15:43:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do what I can to mend the situation. If they do not want to work with me and make up then it is no longer my problem. they were never a true friend to began with. True friends forgive one another and they stick together during the tough times.
2006-09-03 15:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I havn't been in your exact situation but I will say that I have had a falling out with a friend and we really don't have contact at all, but that hasn't happened with all the friends I've had fights with obviously. I'm not going to lie I see her in the halls and it is pretty weird cause she really wants to be my friend but I don't want to be hers and it's like awkward when I catch her eye and stuff. I think about how it was when we were good friends and we had fun but like she got obsessive and I was freaked out a little so I had to end it lol yeah it was pretty weird! Well if you feel like you are really going to miss the freindship you have you should reconcile but if not you should just let go I guess! I don't really miss my freindship with the girl I was freinds with so it's not a big deal for me, I have amazing friends! If you have a bunch of other good friends I think you'll be fine with them! Remember missing things and wanting them back are two different things, you might think about imes you've had but that doesn't mean you need to go back to the situation with them, look back on the good times!
2006-09-03 22:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cali girl 06! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tried to resolve the issue or prob. if not, usually it resolves itself, and still, if not, i stress over the whole issue, not much of a help, but its my own experience...
2006-09-03 22:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah me and one of my best friends fought a lot last year. mainly becuz her new bff didnt like me and we didnt get along. and my bff chose her over me to hang out w/ and there was so much drama going on and my bffs new friend made up stuff about me. it was awful. but now me and my bff r still friends and her friend that i didnt get along w/ is still friends w/ her. but my best friend says she cant trust her any more. and i forgave her for all the mean stuff that happened. and i think our friendship is even stronger now that before.
i hope everything will be okay for u!!
2006-09-03 23:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did what I could to repair the friendship, she was unwilling and now we don't speak, which is totally fine with me cause shes a *****! do what you can to mend it, if it's worth your time. if they just don't give a ****, then move on and tell them to **** off.
2006-09-03 22:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by bubblezncream57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to make some new ones
2006-09-03 22:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋