Why do woman always want to be around their man?

Question

Seems to me that woman always want huge amounts of "quality" time, or attention from their man. Don't any out there think that time apart is good for the relationship as much as time together. Me and my wife have seem to run out of things to talk about. My grandparents didn't spend every waking minute together. It was still obvous after all those years they were still very much in love. Too many people find a connection now adays to people they talk to online. Mostly seems to be about the attention they get from the other end. Well of corse you get attention the person on the other end don't have a life.

Answer 1

Not all women thank you but i know where you are coming from and from personal experience it is good to take a break as absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Answer 2

I love him. He loves me. We are each others' best friends. We have a lot in common and have never run out of things to talk about.... and even if we've both silent it's nice just to be together. I miss him when he's not around - like a physical piece of me is missing (and he's said the same). He's my rock, my love, and a huge part of my life. After being together for more than 25 years I can't imagine ever feeling differently.

Right now he's finishing up the dinner dishes so we can work on the Sunday crossword puzzle in bed. That's why I have the time to spend on here.

Answer 3

Woman like to be around there man because it makes them feel safe!! Wile time to your self's will keep you closer together ( witch many people don't know ) it sounds weird but if you spend every min with each other then you are going to have problems... If you don't see each other for a day. when you do see each other you will be able to talk about your day. and what happened. You might even have a better love life... I say Love life and not Sex live do to the fact of a sex driven relationship will never work , it just wont last!!!

Answer 4

women need security
i know because i am a woman.
sometimes i dont understand why my boyfriend doesnt want to be around me all the time. i know its obsessive but i cant help it, and like i said women need security. men may be more laid back about it. it basically cant be helped because it is the nature of the person. possibly the person grew up in a very loving environment where attention was a must.
if you are having problems with this maybe the women you are with need a different hobby, but most women set their life on trying to make their man happy. maybe its the whole housewife, family thing.
all i know is that im the same way and i know what youre talking about. i struggle with needing constant attention sometimes but i dont want to come on as obsessive so i find other things to do.
pEaCe

p.s.
thank you for the advice on my topic

Answer 5

Lots of people crave attention because they actually don't feel worthy of it and they are subconscionsly try to invade your boundaries. They are looking for you to make them.
Make the Happy
Make them enjoy life
Make them a complete person
All of which they actually shoud BRING into the relationship.

yes, Women need to have a LIFE. Men need to accept the fact that this woman has and had a life of her own prior to knowing them. Lots of women cut off their "life" when they meet a man because it consists mostly of chat time gossiping with girlfriends, and trying to meet a man.

Find a woman who has made herself happy with making a life for herself and she won't be so clingy.

The question really should be.. why do men get with/stay with needy, clingy, insecure women?

Is the online forum mostly populated by the latter .. possibly

Answer 6

you should feel flattered that she wants to be around you all the time. That shows how much she loves you and adores you. Sometimes you dont have to talk just being together is all that matters some people dont get to have the opportunity to have what you guys have so take advantage cus if something happens to where it is gone then you wont have her at all just think about that

Answer 7

Its not the fact that we want to spend every waking moment with yall but we feel the need to spend time with the people we most love and care about. Most of us feel the need to spend as much time with yall as we can. However time alone is essential for a relationship. She might feel the need to be with you so u dont act like the "bad" guy. She probably is afraid to be hurt. You need to explain to her that u love to be with her but you feel the need to be by yourself sometimes. Absence makes the heart grow fonder they say but just not to much. Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.( How you really feel.) and just explan to her your not wanting to leave her or be with out her you just need some quality "me" time. Good luck.

Answer 8

perhaps you attract clingy girls. My husband and I have our own lives and we spend quality time together. I have many friends that I do activities with and so does he. At the end of the day we are so delighted to see one another and we have wonderful conversations about our day.

Answer 9

Sorry but we all don't feel like that If I spent every waking hour with my hubby I would have to kill him. Still madly in love with my man after 16 years.

Answer 10

Bro, I SO feel for you. Story of my life. I'm suffocating. There are women out there, secure in their heart about their place in the relationship who don't smother their boyfriend or husband. Or so I'm told. But either they do it to keep their man out of trouble or because of their own insecurity. Either way it's an askance pain in my @$$!!!!!!! Good luck to you and God bless you!