(girlz only plz!!!) well im 18 and havent achaieved an orgasm yet can ne 1 help me like is something rong?

Question

i need help plz!!!

Answer 1

I don't think anything is wrong. For me its all about trusting who i'm with and being able to relax. i have been married twice and am 30 years old. i can tell you exactly when i had what few orgasms i have had.
Was talking to a friend of mine the other day. she is 20 and has had very few herself if i remember right she said only 3. so no your not weird you just have to find what or who exactly does it for you. for me it is other women
for you who knows. search and explore

Answer 2

I'm an old one. So, at 18 I didn't have an orgasm either. It has to be a man that can take the time, be gentle and treat you like it's all about you. It's not unusual for some women to not have orgasms ever.....though I would hate to think of that. The main thing is to relax and be someplace that you aren't worried about being interrupted or bothered. No phone, no kids, no visitors. Maybe some romantic music and don't try so hard. Oral sex may be the answer for your first time. So, it's not unusual, just try to let things happen, slowly and don't worry about it. Please have safe sex and talk to your partner. sometimes an inexperienced lover has no idea how to help you either. If that's the case maybe some anatomy lessons together....everything you always wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask is still in print and at the library. Use it all because orgasm is the greatest if you love the person you are with! Good luck!

Answer 3

I know this is gonna sound weird. But you need to explore your own body and figure out what feels good to you. When you figure this out, either using your fingers or my personal preference, a vibrator, tell your man what he needs to do. Don't be shy about this either, otherwise you're missing out while he has all the fun. If he can't do it then grab his body and take control, that is what I had to do until mine got it down. If he still ain't cuttin it, just play with your toys and kick him to the curb!
Bye the way I not only orgasm everytimebut even have multiple now. Also, I try different positions for fun but I can only actually orgasm with him on top.
Oh Yeah.. When I use my vibe, I normally have to wait 12hours or a day before regular sex can give me an orgasm, just because the vibrator it somuch more powerful than a coc.k.

Answer 4

If you are with a partner, you being on top really helps. You can also go to a store and get a good back vibrator and go to town, that will definitely do the trick. The only problem with using a vibrator is you are less sensitive when you have intercourse with your partner and it will be really hard for you to have an orgasm then. But it's nice with a vibrator as you can orgasm several times every day if you want.

Answer 5

Relax, there is nothing wrong with you. Many women find it difficult to achieve an orgasm at first, but rest assured it will happen. The right time, the right person, the right technique, all add up to a delight in the making of an orgasm. So don't give up.

Answer 6

Don't worry, That is completely natural. Most women your age can not achieve orgasms yet. In fact most women are not able to achieve orgasms until there 30s. That is why they say that men achieve there sexual prime in there teens and women in there 30s.
If it is that big of a deal to you though....
I would suggest you getting comfortable with your body first. If you can't bring yourself to orgasm then nobody else will be able to.
Try getting into a hot bathtub and using the jet function on the handheld shower head. That usually does the trick.
I hope this helps

Answer 7

This is not unusual. You will find it requires comfort and trust. The more aroused you are before he penetrates you the higher your chances. Get to know your own body, explore, practice, bring yourself to orgasm so you know what is required to reach that point. Many women need external stimulation ( clitoral ) during sex to achieve orgasm and vanilla sex doesn't often cause that so join inthe action if needed. You are allowed to help, change positions, ask for what you want, play a game to teach him what you need and want.
Practice, learn, enjoy!

Answer 8

No, you are just like 50% of the women out here but you aren't afraid to ask for help. I think you should try a vibrator and think about the ideal man in your life and try to enjoy it. It's not wrong to enjoy our sexual feelings whether we are a man or woman.

Answer 9

I'm 27 and have not yet had an orgasm with a guy....but by myself I can. . let me know when you find out the answer!!!

Answer 10

Are you familiar with the part of your body that achieves this? You can cause it to happen by masturbation. If you're trying to have it happen by intercourse, it's much harder.