Are there things that men just can't understand about what a woman needs in bed? Do women just give up and learn to live without them?
2006-09-03 14:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by S K 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If they are not satisfied they will find someone who can just like men do but it's a learning experience for both parties involved if you truly love that person you will work on pleasing her as well as her pleasing you ..my boyfriend said the way may hands feel make him feel good so I caress him when we are in bed so by being together you learn and pick up on what your women like so don't get discouraged keep working on it and may sound weird but ask her what she like !!!
2006-09-03 15:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by classy chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although I am a guy too, I think you should think about what YOU need in bed. Is it just fulfilling of your needs, or it is something bigger? Do you want to make your mate happier, or it's just a hormonal disfunction? Think, what do YOU want. Then it will be easier for you to understand your mate's needs/desires.
There are some moments you have to consider. Never go to bed without taking a shower first. Always kiss your spouse when you come to bed. Don't forget to say "I love you" when you kiss her. And try to be as kind to each other as both of you possibly can.
When you think of sexual side of your relationship, don't let it to dominate in your life. Life has a lot of joy in itself, so do not let the sexual stimulation lead you through life. The greatest joy in life is to make others happy. "Happy" does not mean "sexually satisfied". Use all your talents to make others laugh. This is the best thing we can do on Earth. Laugh, laugh, laugh - without end. Here is a source of happiness !!!
2006-09-03 15:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Viktor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you have a very open relationship it is OK for the woman to let the guy know how they like things in that department... I also think that it is different for each woman. I don't think all women give up, but if the guy is apathetic then maybe they can service themselves and live without men, yes.
2006-09-03 15:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Margarita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men don't understand at all.
If we tell them..then it doesn't mean anything to us.
We want them to understand our needs and act on it to make us crawl up the walls in passion and lust.
Yes, we give up because we figure only our soul mate will know how to..and if they don't know off hand..then we figure...we missed out on our soul mate again.
2006-09-03 15:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the man. I, personally, have no complaint in that department with my man.
2006-09-03 15:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my hubby does please me dont get me wrong...but i love role playin games...not the dr dr type but like small talk...fun in bed, and sometimes i like the slow motion ...also i love for him to make noise during..he does but not like you know ...damn good, like omg, you feel so good..
2006-09-03 15:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are a lot smarter than they were 20 years ago thanks to the internet.....lol
2006-09-03 15:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋