of becoming a lesbian because you were mistreated badly by oter men?
2006-09-03 14:35:59 · 46 answers · asked by girl@home 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i usually make lesbians straight, it's happened before! i met a lesbian, we became really close friends and next thing you know im going out with her and we're having so much fun. She told me she became a lesbian because she was mistreated by this guy beforehand and she never wanted to feel that again. Eventually we just grew apart since she had to move... it was a very depressing stage in my life.
2006-09-03 14:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I mean if this is true than what if its another girl that mistreat you badly, will u want to be a guy then?
I know how hurt it is to be mistreated badly by another man. My previous bf was cheating on me continuously and abusing me emotionally. I dumped him and he won't believe it. I dumped him and never looked back.
I am now in a relationship with a better guy. So, the moral to the story is that there are good men out there. Some men are bad, but not all of them are bad. Give them one more chance.
2006-09-03 14:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by camellia_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated, mistreated, used, abused and confused but I'd never go after other chicks.
And by the way, I've never heard of "oter" men. Is this a new kind?
2006-09-03 14:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every woman has to a certain extent...Now fantasizing about it, uh uh, that's out the question for me. I just wondered if women treat other women better than men treat women but there are probably some doggish azz lesbians out here that would make you feel like you should've stayed with a man instead jumping the fence to the "other side." I just let men know if I feel they're treating me unfairly, then I leave their azz to let them see I'm not kidding. That either gives them a chance to straighten up and beg to get me back or to move on and dog someone else out.
2006-09-03 14:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by duvaldiva.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son's EX (by the way she also dated his best friend) claims that she is a lesbian because of them! My son also said that A LOT of girls he goes to school with are "lesbians" now. When I was younger we (girls) used to say that we were gonna become lesbians when we got our hearts broken But we NEVER acted on it..Just talk, I guess kids act on it now instead of just saying it. By the way my son's EX goes back and forth (boy's & girls) I'm sorry but isn't THAT BI? (used to be?) Personally I don't think she knows what she wants....Me personally though NO...Never actually thought of it..Like MEN WWWWAAAAYYYY too much, besides, there is only so much a woman could do for me, then I'ld need a man anyway, so why bother????
2006-09-03 14:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If it was something I already believed I was then ok but I wouldn't become one based on a bad experience with men. All relationships have their ups and downs and becoming a lesbian doesn't guarantee you to never have another bad experience.
2006-09-03 14:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is an "oter" man? Half otter, half man, or what? Are there lesbian otters? Does anybody care?
2006-09-03 14:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u get it? men treat u badly cuz they want to u to become lesbians so u can make hardcore pornos for us to watch,,, if u do u will be giving in to men
2006-09-03 14:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by deej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sometimes I think it'd be easier to date my best friend. I'm just not all that attracted to women though, and I don't think I could force myself to be like that unfortunately. Would be great if that was an option!
2006-09-03 14:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahh, theres just cause other men did mistreated me in the past, doesnt mean that "good guys" don't exist.
2006-09-03 14:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋