What advise can you give me about puberty??? I am nervous!!! Is it scary???

Answer 1

There is nothing to be scare about. Is just another step in your life. Like going to college, getting married, and to have kids. More responsibility, but you'll be all right. Think about how many girls went through it and if they could do it, so can you. Good luck and have a happy life.

Answer 2

Puberty is a large topic. Try narrowing the subject matter down a little. I can tell you what I know.

You are maturing sexually in a biological way. You will start to have pubic hair and underarm hair if you do not already have it. Keep it shaved under your arms and wait 10 minutes before applying deodorant to newly shaved armpits. You will start your menstruation cycle. While this can be a bore but it is necessary and it a joyful thing because it means you are developing as you should and you will bear children some day if you wish. You will have mood swings and get irritated with your parents more and probably think a lot of stuff is dumb. Try to love yourself and others and try not to be critical of others as you will make a lot of mistakes (everyone does at this age it is normal but does not feel normal) so be kind and hopefully others will return the favor. Stay away from "haters". Learn everything there is to know about your body and how it works. Love your imperfections because we all have them even if it does not look like it.

Do not compare yourself to girls in magazines. I hated my body for years and did not even realize I was attractive due to looking at those magazines nor did I realize that was the reason I thought I was ugly.

Answer 3

I'm guessing your a girl, really you should either be getting your first period if you haven't already done so, you might be one of the unlucky ones and get hair under your nose, in a sort of mustache way, and well of course your legs will get more hair and your armpits will have that as well, and well above your p*ssy and inside it you'll have hair. So well that's about the time when you decide when you want to shave. And well last but not least, the most apparent change in your body figure is breast development, they will get alot bigger over time, or start to grow if they haven't already done so. And you might get acne

That's about it really, I mean except for the monthly menstruation cycle, you have nothing to worry about. So just relax it's not as bad as you think it is. And well never ever be afraid to ask somebody for help about your body or things you might be feelings. And well you'll start to feel like you really want to have sex badly, that's completely normal, but don't give into it, you'll get horny and even wet, and well you will experiment your body and you'll know what masturbation is and why everybody does it at some point in their life and why it's not a bad thing, even though people make it out to be.


So it's not really scary, your friends will go through the same thing and you can experience it together. You'll live I promise.

Answer 4

No one can say exactly when you'll get your first menstrual period, but you will get it some time during puberty. Puberty is the time in your life when you begin to become an adult. This means a lot of growing and changing - both inside and out. Some girls start puberty at age 8, and others may start as late as age 14 or 15. Each girl goes at her own pace. So don't think you're weird if you start puberty a little earlier or a little later than your friends.


At the beginning of puberty, you'll notice that your breasts are developing and you're starting to grow a little hair under your arms. Hair also will grow on your genitals (pubic hair).

For most girls, their first menstrual period, or menarche (say: meh-nar-kee), begins about 1 1/2 to 2 years after breast development starts. In some girls, the time from the beginning of puberty to getting the first menstrual period may take only 6 months; for other girls, it may take longer - up to 3 years. Every girl is different, and there is a wide range of normal development during puberty.

A good sign you're getting close to the time when your first period will arrive is if you notice a thick, white mucous discharge coming from your vagina. Usually, this happens for a number of months before you get your first period.

After you've gotten your period and you're menstruating, it means that your body is able to have a baby (even though you probably don't want one yet!). Every girl has two ovaries filled with thousands of tiny eggs and two fallopian tubes that connect the ovaries to a place called the uterus or womb, where babies grow. If you've already gotten your period, it means that special chemicals, or hormones, in your body are telling the eggs in your ovaries to mature.

So each month, one egg matures and begins its journey to the uterus. While it's traveling, the walls of your uterus get thicker with blood and tissue, which can act as a nice, soft cushion for a baby. Once the egg reaches the uterus, if it hasn't been fertilized by sperm, the uterus doesn't need this blood-and-tissue cushion and pushes it out through your vagina. Ta dah! Your period has arrived!

Once you get your period, you may once again worry about whether you're normal. No two girls' periods are exactly alike. Some girls have periods that last for 2 days, and other girls have periods that last for more than a week. Some girls have very heavy periods with monthly cramps, and others have much lighter periods after the first couple of days.

It also takes a while (usually 12 to 18 months) for a girl's period to become regular after her first period. You may get your first period and then not have another for a few months. That's perfectly normal. The amount of blood you lose during your period can vary, too. You can bleed anywhere from a few spoonfuls to a cup (240 milliliters) of blood each time you have your period.

If you think that you are bleeding too much or are worried that something is wrong, talk to your doctor. Some differences are normal, but you shouldn't be bleeding for a few weeks at a time or going more than 6 months without a period.

Are you thinking a lot about when your first period will arrive? You're not alone. Lots of girls wonder and wonder - when will it come? If you feel a little worried or anxious about getting your period, it can help to talk to someone you trust, like your mom or older sister



No, its not scary at all. Its a piece of cake..... Most of the time, I don't even realize I'm on it. Just relax. Donn't worry so much. You can ask your doctor about any specific questions and/or go to www.avert.org/puberty2.htm
www.teenwire.com
www.puberty101.com
www.kidshealth.org
www.iwannaknow.org
www.4teenagers.com.

Answer 5

It's not too bad, and you get used to it, i knew alot about puberty and stuff so that helped, don't be afraid to ask questions, with the cramps and all i didn't have them for like the first year, but everyone's different, the best thing for it is, motrin, or atleast thats wat i take, Good luck

Answer 6

it's not as bad as everyone makes it out to be. i was scared too but it's not so bad. u might have cramps but if u drink water and walk or run when u are on ur monthly thing cramps will not come as much but u'll bleed more. u'll get cranky so warn ur friends when u're on ur monthly that what i have to do. so don't worry about besides ur friends are going to go thou it too. oh u might want some snack food most people snack all day long when they're on they'res but don't worry about that.

Answer 7

well. the only advice i can give u is...
keep ur heard on ground level,
dont make the same mistake twice,
never EVER fight with ur (girl) frends for a guy. oh, r u a guy? the other way round then
and last...
stay close 2 ur parents

Answer 8

its not bad.. unless your menstraul cycle hasn't started.. when that starts.. then yeah its bad cramping.. but you get used to it.. just drink a lot of water to calm it down and keep yourself healthy so it wont be as bad.
so my advice is keep yourself healthy and clean ;) and you'll be fine.. so don't be scared ok everyone goes thru this.

Answer 9

Yeah it' s terrible but just live with it. Change in your body is good though. You get curves and boobs. So just live with it.

Answer 10

its really not as bad as everyone says it is.
you'll go through a lot of changes
but as long as you keep your head up
and have confidence
you'll be fine.