This will be my first time and I m feeling very nervous about it
2006-09-03 14:23:31 · 12 answers · asked by LaChica P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
never
2006-09-03 14:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by marajjoya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure and get a very good lube. And start with a small vibrator, this can really help loosen the muscles and help you relax. My gf really really enjoys me tongueing her first - she really relaxes. But the most overlooked think with anal sex is how hard he is. If he isn't rock hard, his penis will tend to bunch up as it enters your anus and this is what causes most of the pain. Make sure he is completely hard before trying - this will allow him to slide in with less friction and pain. Have him ease in just a bit, as soon as you feel even a little pain, have him back out a bit, otherwise you will tighten up. Then have him ease back in and try pushing (puckering) just a bit as he does. Anal sex isn't for everyone, but it can be incredible for some, especially if you know what you are doing !!!!!! It's cool that you are willing to try - good luck.
Here is another tip - use a condom - if there is any mess when you are done - you can quickly slide it off into the paper towel you have waiting on the nightstand !!!!
2006-09-06 10:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by mikeallen555555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have it? Are you being pressured? If you are very nervous you should pass on it for now. Also, are you sure your partner doesn't have any diseases? Even if you're using a condom, they can break. Anal sex is high risk. If you still want to do it, trick is lots of lube and to relax not tighten. I'd recommend practicing with something smaller to get used to the feel of it.
2006-09-03 14:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for a beginner is to position yourself doggy style and make sure you have your butt as far up as you can (kinda like a cat that sticks its tail up in the air). And make sure you use plenty of lubrication and tell your boyfriend to go in gently about two inches at a time until you are comfortable enough to take more.
2006-09-03 14:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only do it when you both are wanting to and are ready. Do it slowly because if you rip something inside. and it gets infected it's major bad. To prepare for it I would use fingers first then a penis do the finger for a few times first. Go to this website it will answer all your questions. http://www.talksexwithsue.com/ go to Sexual Information. IT'S PERFECT for those types of questions.
2006-09-03 14:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it very slow. for me it was very painful at first, it is everytime, but once you get in there and start moving you will notice that it actually feels really good. just go slow and use lube.
2006-09-03 14:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest being very careful. Make sure you go very slow at first and use very good lube... ( I reccomend astroglide liquid)
2006-09-03 14:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really tricky and you have to be very carefully with a lot of preparation, you'd be better off just contacting me on my IM so I can explain it to you in detail
2006-09-03 14:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by trial and error 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never.
2006-09-03 14:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Misheee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowly, lots of lube, only when you're ready
2006-09-03 14:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by bobbalou27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. The anus is not for that purpose!!!
2006-09-03 14:25:29 · answer #11 · answered by Skypilot49 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋