2006-09-03 14:10:56 · 24 answers · asked by Brandon911 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hardly!
2006-09-03 14:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dorothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the type of girl you're looking for. The shallow girls look at a boy and the first thing that comes to their mind are his looks, money, car, and butt-kissing ability. These girls don't really plan on staying with the boy forever or anything, and usually love to create drama. Higher-class girls want personality, compatibility, caring, and looks play somewhat into a factor. It all depends on who you want. Do you want to go with that fake-and-bake girl with the bleach blonde hair or do you want the intellegent brunette girl over there?
I can tell you my own preferences. Looks play a factor in picking out a crush, but it's not *the* factor. I can usually look at a guy and say "he's cute", but it won't be until I know his personality and intellegence until I decide to say "he's attractive" or not.
I thought one boy I met was physically attractive (captain of the high school wrestling team, tall, etc) but after we actually started going out I realized that he had no personality and we had nothing in common. It didn't help that he was self-degrading, self-obsessed, and a cheater. That relationship didn't last more than 2 months.
My next boyfriend was computer dorky, but physically attractive to me (dark hair, nice eyes, good body). This time I waited a little until I knew his personality. When I realized that he was intellegent, caring, and funny, it seemed to enhance everything that I liked about him to begin with. We're now engaged. =)
2006-09-04 17:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I'm not saying that girls don't think about looks at all, because looks do count a little. It's not a first priority for a guy to look hot or cute, or whatever, it's more if a guy is nice/funny/smart or something. Personality definitely overrides looks. Girls love sweet guys. =]
2006-09-03 23:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by her 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no personally for me it's the personality and then the look's but it helps too so... the money dosn't matter to me if you fall in love is for the person not for the money!! so f.u.c.k the money it's not worth it some girl's do go out with guy's just because thei are cute and money etc but the guy's end up being jerk's if u are a guy tha'ts cute and a great personallity then a girl would be lucky to have you ,,, but if u just have a great personallity then the look's dosn't matter thei are still lucky!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 23:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by #1 thing? Shopping!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if guys are cute it really helps. but i loveee funny guys..they make everything so much more interesting, and i like being around them. at first, i thought a couple of guys that i met weren't that cute, but once i got to know them, i started liking them more and more. they got cuter each time..plus if guys are confident it really helps too. and usually, if he has a hott body, girls ALWAYS think they're hott. seriously if they have nice muscles, their face wont matter all that much. so if you're worried, just go to the gym and get buff, and im sure you'll have girls in no time. =]
2006-09-03 22:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jamiexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on the girls age. Teens- they will go for looks first even though some say they really dont. Adults-less likely to go for looks first but will go for somebody who looks'safe'
good luck
2006-09-03 21:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by Female 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl, but personally the personality is what is the best, and if they have good looks thats a bonus
2006-09-03 21:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i started liking a guy when i met him cuz he was K U T E!!! but then i figured out he was reli sweet so now i wanna go out with him! ⥠i didnt wanna go out with him just for looks.
2006-09-03 21:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by .oh snap.london bridge.oh snap. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, ya gotta have $$$$$, a nice car, a hard muscular body and be willing to kiss her a**!!!!!
(this comment should get me some spiked heel prints all over my body)
2006-09-03 21:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... i go for guys who have awsome personalitys. looks mean only a little but personality is way more important
2006-09-03 21:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by Scarlet5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋