and shes in her 5th month. Is this normal? Honestly- the further along in a pregnancy- the bigger ladies get- is it a turn off? Esp after a long day--honesty now- dont just be nice cause your nice husbands and boyfriends---
2006-09-03 13:59:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and what about when the new baby comes- how will it be then? I am just wondering- don't have any myself and I love sex- can't imagine a dry spell like my friends going through.
2006-09-03 14:01:16 · update #1
she has 2 kids and is about to have a third-also she asked me about this- and being single I told her I didn't know and suggested yahoo- she asked me to post manicnut
2006-09-03 14:09:49 · update #2
My husband wanted me all through my pregnancy. In fact we had sex up until the night before!!! Sounds like this hubby has a problem.
2006-09-03 14:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 07:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the man.. some men think its sexy their wives having a life they helped create growing inside of them makes them feel like more of a stud lol.. and they enjoy having sex with their woman during this time.. some men as soon as the baby starts moving inside of her, they get the creeps of thinking their child is in there and so is their .. well u know.. and it totally turns them off.. Some are so ignorant to actually think they are poking the child during pregnancy lol which always cracks me up lol.. Some are afraid of hurting either the baby or the woman during that time.. Some do find it rather unattractive.. unfortunately and i think those types of men are stupid its their child for petesake.. it doesnt always stay the size of a pea.. it has to grow..
Most men are excited for the 6 weeks after birth to be over so they can have sex again.. my husband and i only waited 4 we couldnt wait any longer.. and we had sex the night before i went into labor.. and its a proven fact that having sex in the last few weeks of pregnancy can actually induce labor..
Some men are so turned off by sex after their wife has a baby because they no longer view their wife as a sexy object but a mother they need to respect.. so sometimes it does have a bad backlash to it, but thats usually rare occasions..
Some men that witnessed the birth of their child .. get so turned off by how "gross" they feel it was and watching something so sacred to them stretch to unbelievable sizes that its actually tramatic for them and it takes awhile before they want to have sex again ...
So it just depends on the type of man, their maturity level ect..
2006-09-03 15:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't feel comfortable having sex when their partner has begun to show. He might think that he is too rough. There is nothing wrong with a guy not wanting to have sex with a pregnant woman. I never had that problem. My husband and I had sex my whole pregnancy. I guess some men are just different. But I don't think your friend has anything to worry about.
2006-09-03 14:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am curious about what happened with the two previous children. Did he have sex with her during the whole time?
Is he having a personal problem and so not able to have an erection?
What about their normal everyday life: Is it as it should be? The reality is that your friend and her husband should do some sitting and talking to find out what is the problem between them so they can get back into active sex life.
2006-09-03 14:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to talk to him. I never had that problem but maybe he is afraid of being to rough or sometimes men can be turned off by a big ol belly. She really just needs to ask him.
2006-09-03 14:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys think pregnent women are hellaa sexy. And pg women have raging hormones that make them extra sexaul.
Most guys feel like studs.....cuz they planted their seed.
Why, I wonder, is this your business what she and her husband do or don't do? That is a personal issue between them.
2006-09-03 14:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always worked for us ,right up until the night before, both times.
2006-09-03 14:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it is normal.. when my wife was pregnant 2 years ago.. i loved having sex with her still, i mean her big belly was very beautiful to me because she was pregnant (not fat) we had a lot of great sex while she was pregnant.. and i loved every bit of it. but some guys might think of it as being fat not pregnant. but i loved sex with her...
2006-09-03 14:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it any of your bussiness?
What's between her and her husband is a private matter.
I hope I don't sound too nice. I don't mean to be.
It's not normal to have two kids in her fifth month.
2006-09-03 14:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋