i like a friend. a friend boy, weve been friends 4 years and i dont know how to tell him i m crushin on him or how to do it wihtout ruining our relationship
2006-09-03 13:20:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you tell him, you run the risk of ruining the relationship, does not matter how you brake the news.
so you need to ponder if the risk is worth losing a friend...
2006-09-03 13:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well most lovers start off just being friends! does he have a girlfriend? do ya'll have a good relationship? do you want to carry it out into something else? just tell him that you was wondering if two friends started to like eachother, and things didn't work out, does he think that they could still be friends? what can it hurt, atleast then you'll know how he feels! and if he gives you the answer you've been hoping for then tell him how you feel....... take risks, sometimes, they work out for the best! Good Luck!!
2006-09-03 20:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwwww that souds sooooo sweet.....well since you guys have been friend for a while i dont think you should have aplem talking to him well u could do it over the phone...computer...note or something i would do it over the computer cuz i wouldnt want to sound stupid and be like omg you are hott...lol well yea i think you should tell him as soon as possible cuz some other girl might take him....GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-03 20:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I say he's into you as well and just waiting for you to come around. Start giving him signals while you two are watching a movie, by lying on his chest and getting closer to him when he's talking, and look deep into his eyes. It'll work.
2006-09-03 20:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that ur ready to tell him, then its ok, go ahead and tell him, he'll understand! and dont worry, if u've been good friends for that long, he wont think of u differently! when u approach him to tell him, be confident and act like urself, dont be nervous or shy about it, u've been friends for so long..whats the suprise of telling him something that u both will understand? so, u go girl! go for it and im sure he will like u back! good luck
2006-09-03 20:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what relationship you want the friend or the girlfriend? Make a decision and go for it.
2006-09-03 20:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a crush on a fgirl mate and i asked her out and she aid no but said it so poeticly.......she said she treasured our friendship to much she is 1 of my best friends now so just tell him and see what happens
2006-09-03 20:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by nice guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh...the old question....does he love me, or not? There is no way for us to tell you how to deal with the situation. All that I can say is to tell him that. Tell him how you feel, it's better than hiding it on him anyway.
2006-09-03 20:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont tell him yet. the next time you see him strike up a conversation about anything and then tell him when he dosent expect it.
2006-09-03 20:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by halo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it and see if he likes you abk and if not just say well just forget i ever said anytihng and we will just go on the way we have always been! kk good luck!
2006-09-03 20:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by bballgurlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋