My wife wants a divorce, she said she fell out of love with me but if you know us things don't add up what do

Question

we are both very intimate people and any touch was good for us. thats what we needed. well she has graves disease and that means she looses her sex drive and we drifted apart. not into another persons arms but not being as close as we used to be. What do I do give her space give he a divorce or say he lets work it out. She sent me the papers last week.

Answer 1

give her time....dont bother her for awhile. then lay it on her...flowers, cards. then ask her out to dinner to talk.

Answer 2

I would tell her that you said forever and meant it!
I would also suggest counseling and getting her into a group for support with people who have grave disease! I would tell her that you will give her space but don't want a divorce. Tell her that what you had is worth fighting for and you will be there for her, just tell you how! I would tell her that sometimes we fall in and out of the feeling of love, like waves on the beach that can come and go! Tell her she is being rash in her decision and that you want to go you both are willing to fight for what you had! Good luck!
Whatever happens always do your best at trying then you can always take that with you! Without the if only's or wish I would haves! I wish you well!

Answer 3

When last have you told her that you loved her? When last have you taken her out and say to her you are special? You said you two were close and now you are apart because of her problem. Have you taken the time out to tell her that she is still the most beautiful person in the world and that if you had to marry again, you would marry her?

I believe that she is asking you for a divorce just to give you the freedom to be as sexually active as you would like to be. She may be thinking that because she is not sexually active she is no good. try and get a heart to heart talk with her before you say yes. Best wishes.

Answer 4

Do you want your marriage to work? If so, you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Another thing that you two can do is
seek marriage counseling together before you sign the divorce papers. She probably feels bad about not being able to be intimate with you due to her disease.

Answer 5

I think she loves u so much that she wants u to have a healthy relationship and so she's giving up knowing she cant be what u need her to be because of her graves disease..

Answer 6

first if you dont really know about graves disease then i have got you a site that will explain it & what help & advice you can get, maybe you can then decide weather you can help her, as for a divorce get all the facts first, if you love her you can overcome anything, good luck,

Answer 7

Try and talk things out with her before either of you make any final moves. Has your wife talked with her doctor about her decreased sex drive? Could it be the medication that is causing this?

Answer 8

bring her back to place that both of u 1st meet. i believe ia love without sex also can last forever but is respand on both side.
let recall wan bith of u together because of sexy or some special feels that make her love u and make u love her.

got othe place and have a good understanding.

Bob's (bob the builder)slogon, "Can we do it , Yes We can "

Answer 9

Sign the papers. You still will have to wait 6 months after they are final, so she'll have time to think it over.

Answer 10

Sounds like a bad situation. Try talking to her, or going to couples counseling. I hope it works out for you.

Answer 11

You have very little choice, I am sorry to say. I suspect she may have mental disorders also...good luck and find new love..it is out there.