2006-09-03 13:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by Dirigo_Girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Ask him directly! I am 13 and a boy and I know its tough, but if he doesn't like you then there's no sense in beating yourself up about it!
2006-09-03 13:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Seeker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 31 years old and I'm having that same problem. I totally have this crush on this guy that doesn't live in the same state as me. We talk on the phone and flirt and such. I just want to know everything about him but I'm afraid to say anything about it, lest he thinks I'm a total goon for feeling this way without even knowing him that well. So I'm afraid I don't have any advise. I guess the only way to know for sure would be to ask him, then you know whether to move forward or move on. Sometimes when you spill your guts to a guy and say something like, "I really enjoy being around you, and I want to know what makes you tick", you become all that much more attractive. You would sound mature and confident. So, good luck to both of us.
2006-09-03 20:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Arctichoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the boy...
and unfortunately, you often don't know how he is going to react to whatever you do unless you know him first.
I just toss it out there because its who i am. I don't believe in bullsh*it or pretense so if you're going to like me... you're going to like me as the hearty pirate girl that I am. Otherwise... I coulden't be bothered anyway.
I have a long history of both taking what I want... and rejection.
You live through to love again... always!
2006-09-03 20:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh i would like to know the same thing because i am usual to shy to ask the certain someone because i am scared of the consequence.Think about it if he reject probably stop hanging around with you,with no more conversation that could be very depressing so i like to staring.And then remind myself that i am not good enough for the guy.He needs someone one more promising .
2006-09-06 21:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Moanika 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not like you back. It would be very risky to pursue a relationship with him. You'd be better served to find a boy who is generally disliked by his peers. He'll be very desperate and will do whatever you ask. Hope this helps!
2006-09-03 20:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by rrbowker2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his body language is usually a give away.go out with him and take a close friend with you, she will be able to ask him tact full questions that don't give away your attraction and guage his responses and also be able to pick ip on the way he acts towards you.
2006-09-03 20:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would ask him and see what he says. That is the best way to find out
2006-09-03 20:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, that's the easiest way to find out.
2006-09-03 20:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by SANDRA J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if he's looking 4 you on matchflame.co.uk
2006-09-03 20:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by pol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow, time will tell
2006-09-03 20:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋