i dunno wats happening to my life.my hubby sometimes gets real arrogant with me.he talks rudely as if i'm his slave.this disappoints me a lot.i cry for hours and then he apologise me.this way i'm loosing my love for him.which i dont want to.no matter he do apologise but wats the use after breaking my heart into pieces.i dunno how tohandle this.and its only a year v got married.
2006-09-03 13:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by nazy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweety im sorry you are feeling like this but you are not alone. Im always hee by myself and im always finding new number from different girls. Just pray and ask the Lord to help you. That's what i do and i try not to cry because it only makes you feel worst. If you cant talk to him then go buy a really nice card and let him know how you feel. Dont give up its only been a year but at the same time remember you are beautiful and you will love yourself no matter what. Keep you a journal and write in it this will make you feel better. I really cant give you alot of advise because i have to fix my own problem before i can give good advice to someone else. im 8months pregnant and this man aint never here with me, but i have learned to deal with it and realize that if i love myself then it doesnt matter what no one else thinks or feel. I want you to cheer up and just live. One day this life will be over and we will go to a better place. Smile im here if you need to talk.
2006-09-03 13:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear , this is not a good start to a happy love life, you two need some help or it doesn't look to good from here, I'm sorry your so upset but let me tell you no one has a right to make you feel the way you do. You really need to talk to one another and come to some understanding in this marriage. Work out this situation and and hope all goes well.
2006-09-03 20:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Louisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try a marriage counselor. sit down and tell him if he doesn't stop the verbal abuse you will leave and apparently he has some issues he needs to discuss. if not with you then with a certified respondent. how do you have time to cry for hours, get out and do something!
2006-09-03 20:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH,
I REALLY CAN'T IMAGINE HOW CAN A PERSON TREAT HIS WIFE SUCH A WAY, I AM NOT MARRIED BUT I CONSIDER MY WIFE AS MY HEART BEAT I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE REALITY AFTER MARRIAGE BUT I THINK I AM NOT BE SO HARD ANY WAY, I WILL ONLY SAY THAT AFTER HE APOLOGISE TO YOU AND EVERYTHING GOES NORMAL TELL HIM HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HIM AND HOW YOU FEEL
WHEN HE BEHAVES IN SUCH A MANNER TO YOU, EXPRESS
YOU FEELINGS I THINK THIS WILL DEFINITELY WORK FOR YOU.
BYE DEAR,
I WISH EVERYTHING GOES WELL,
TAKE CARE.
2006-09-03 20:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by deep_desire79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there..Its his problem not yours. Don't let him control your life..You only have one life..Do you really want to sit and cry while you watch your life float away in your tears.
Get up and change your life. The power is within your heart.
Your desires. Your Life. Your Love. Your Heart. Your Tears.
2006-09-03 20:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are a bit oversensitive to his criticism. You need to sit down with him and talk this over. Make certain to let him know how this is affecting you.
2006-09-03 20:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel and listen to u r heart its up to u. if u want to be hurteveryday then stay but if u want to be free and find someone who aprreciates u then leave him i hope u find the answer in u r heart . good luck
2006-09-03 20:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound all too familiar. men take a great deal of pleasure for some reason in making the women in their lives miserable
2006-09-03 20:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by him n her♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off when he does it dont cry get mad and tell him how u feel i mean stop bein a crii babii and get some balls already i mean aint no man gonna disrespect me and i been married 13 yrs
2006-09-03 20:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need some marriage counseling.
2006-09-03 20:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Milkman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋