Okay so my boyfriend, chad and I just got together [ about a month or so ago] after HE broke up with me. The day after he asked me back out [on the internet] we met someplace inbetween both of our houses, and walked to his house together. We had a good time, atleast I did. I had to go because of an emergency [moms best friend in hospital] .. Well after that we didn't see eachother for about 2 weeks, I went on vacation. We didn't talk on the phone or anything. I called him just this friday to apologize for not calling or anythin while I was on vacation..He said to meet him at this park and I was all for it. We really re-established our relationship. Hours later after I got home, he called me..sounding like he did when he broke up with me the first time...He told me while I was on vacation he had cheated on me with some other girl twice at a party..I don't know what to do.. He told me, better than finding out myself..I give him credit for that..Should I forgive him? Or just break it off?
2006-09-03 12:58:08 · 21 answers · asked by guitargrl863 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would break it off.
Just my opinion!
2006-09-03 13:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So lets get this straight. Your first date after a break up you charge off cos your Mom's friend, not your Mom but just her friend, is in hospital. Then you don't call for 2 weeks.
The blokes feeling pretty lonely and confused, goes to a party and hits it off with another girl.
Then you come back on the scene cos it fits in with your time table. The chap has the decency to tell you about the other girl and you get the hump because he didn't dangle on your string and hang around to see if you came back.
Personally I would dump you for being unrealistic and selfish.
2006-09-03 20:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Neil C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a relationship or just 2 people who occasionly get together to have fun when neither have anything better to do?! Why did he break up with you in the first place? If you care about eachother, why did neither of you try to contact eachother during 2 weeks? All sounds a bit strange to me...! Yeah its great he told you about the other girl... But it sounds like neither of you know what you really want.
2006-09-04 06:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by camilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had the decency to tell you. If you want to give him a second chance then feel free to do it. But this time establish some sincerity with him. Explain that you won't go with a guy who is a perpetual cheater. If he agrees then it might be OK.
2006-09-03 20:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still early on in a relationship to be going behind your back. But if you want to give him a 2nd chance then go for it just lay a few rules down about stuff like that and tell him if he ever goes behind your back again you're over and mean it. at least you wont regret giving him a 2nd chance and if he does mess up again then you can say at least you tried and he was a jerk for letting you go again!!!
2006-09-03 20:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by 2plus3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive him, after all after such a short time together he had no reason to tell you he had fooled around with another girl..
you have never established a commitment to each other so you aren't really in a position to judge his 'infidelity'
2006-09-07 15:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I switched off somewhere around the park thing. He sounds like an idiot. Gotta go.
2006-09-04 07:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by flashgordon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he admitted to it, it was wrong of him. There are plenty of others out there who will cherish the ground you walk on. He's not worth your time if he's not willing to make sure you're the only worth one in his.
2006-09-03 22:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, dont even waste you time/
He had you on a string dancing to his tune and he would shout jump, you would say how high.
Find someone who makes time for you. Find a real man!
2006-09-07 14:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Rebz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off! he obviously can't be trusted if he has cheated on u. u deserve better than him! relationships are based on trust and he hasn't show u any. don't risk getting hurt again
2006-09-03 20:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say forgive him, well give him one more chance
sounds like he thought that you two had broken up and was just looking for comfort in the wrong place.
2006-09-03 20:12:36 · answer #11 · answered by toevich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋