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Ok, there are like 4 guys im real interested in. Please dont make fun of me ok? Im not a slut. So guy #1----- i've liked for two years, Justin, so, he makes me feel so.... special. I light up everytime I see him... I just wanna kiss him.. I wanna hold him in my arms *comes back to earth*
So guy #2----- Ive known him awhile, Ryan, well, he's kinda immature and if i hear another spongebob impression, im gonna scream, but we spend alot of time together, and he always sits by me at lunch
So guy #3----- my best friend's ex boyfriend, Brendon, the way he touches me. Like he always has his arm around my middle, like were goin out
So guy #4----- Justin's best friend, Chase. The way his eyes sparckle when he talks to me. The way he smiles when he looks at me.

I dont know who i should go for, help!!!

2006-09-03 12:57:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

10 answers

Only Justin makes you feel so...special.

Ryan is never going to be more than a friend, you can't make him more mature; he has to learn that the hard way. Break it to him, "I really, really like you and we have fun together, but if I hear another spongebob impression I'm gonna scream." <--Your words, your feelings. If he makes some big changes then you might consider him, but it he doesn't take the hint, if he remains immature then never be more than a friend to him.
Brendon is sitting on a mine field. Do you really want to piss off your best friend? Find out why she dumped him. If you are both alike then you might agree that it is good to stay away from him. You also might find out if your best friend still wants him or not. You like his attention, but when he puts his arm around you he is publicly claiming you are his. Have you agreed to this, did he even ask?
Chase wants you and is attracted to you, but you never said that you were attracted to him. He is the one who lights up, do you light up, or are you just happy that he likes you?

JUSTIN: You answered the question yourself. He is the only one that affects YOU in a positive manner, he is the only one that won't risk making your best friend angry, and he is the only one you want to kiss. With the information you gave Justin is the logical choice, but logic proved that a-bombs don't explode and bees don't fly. We had to know more about them before we could find out how they work. You need to give more information about each man. Don't think about how they feel, a lot of men want you. Think about how YOU feel and how they make YOU feel when you are with them, thinking of them, or first see them.

Check out my answer on the question between men and women: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnLdfdFJ0pYWh1RryXZEm2nsy6IX?qid=20060902224610AA5GrWW
That will give you some more insights. You are the one who needs the relationship, men are just interested in sex. If they like you then they can be kept interested in the relationship, but that is your job. If you tell them that you plan on being celebate for the next ten years then you will drive off those who only want sex, and I bet Brendon will be among them. The men that remain are those that want you, for you, not for your parts.

2006-09-03 13:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0 0

okayy i think you should go for guy #1 for the following reasons:
1) you said him first.. i thinkk this was subconsciously, you want him more =)
2) you've liked him for two years.. which is a long time!
3) he makes you feel special
4) he makes you happy (you light up)
5) you guys have a physical attraction too (you wanna kiss him)
6) i elminated guy #2 since he sounds a little too immature for a relationship
7) and eliminated guy #3 as well since this could cause problems between you and your bestfriend seeing he's her ex
8) i think you like guy #1 more than #4 so byebyeee #4 lol
okay well i couldnt come up with 10.. lol but i tried.. so yeah good luck and i hope everything works out! make sure you're not leading them all on though that could cause problems lol.. hope i helped =)

OH AND LOL 9) your screenname! i love justin!! you lovee him and just like the others/ are interested in them so yeah def go for him!

2006-09-03 20:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by 2 · 0 0

Go for Justin first! Then if he don't work out go for Chase next. That might make Justin jealous....Wait!! Go for Chase first then. Good luck and hope it all works out for you.

2006-09-03 20:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0 0

dont know but guy #3 sounds like he like to hold on to u

2006-09-03 19:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by LauraTall 2 · 0 0

Go for guy # 4, trust me on this one.

2006-09-03 20:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Biker 6 · 0 0

looks like justin is your man and the rest are just friends.

2006-09-03 20:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0 0

guy #1 or #4 sound better

2006-09-03 20:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by car4423 4 · 0 0

What about guy # 5 ME LOL EFIL

2006-09-03 20:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ask ur heart.... i know thats is v.dfct to u ..but dont ask any body ..ask ur self 1st

2006-09-03 20:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

your right, you do have problems

2006-09-03 19:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0 0

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