I just sent the question about my husband going to jail after a domestic dispute. Still think it's my fault?

Question

Here's some news for all you idiots who think he's right to stay away from me and not contact me. Let me tell you WHY he went to jail. He RAN OVER ME with my own new car. I had mentioned the subject of divorce, he drove off like a maniac, I called him on the cell phone asking him to bring back my car and then he could leave if he wanted, and he brought it back all right. Still think I'm the B*tch who caused the problem here? I'm still in shock, and didn't really need to be berated. I should be dead instead of being here like this. Maybe whoever called me a B*tch would change her tune if this happened to her. He had never done anything like this before, and I wasn't the one who put him in jail. It was the state. Happy now?

Answer 1

I didn't see your first posting, but if he ran you over with a car he should do some serious time for that. Period! Good luck with your recovery.

Answer 2

I really feel for you . my sister was with her husband for 6 years and in those 6 years he beat her badly enough that she had surgery 2 different times once for a broken collar bone another for blood clots in her leg because he kicked her leg so badly. finely she did get away from him and leave . but people here can be so judgmental and unkind with there reply's no woman or man should be beaten . i don't care what the person has done . the man should be a man and walk away . and know you should not be called names on here . that is terrible . as you said those people would change there tunes if this happened to them . take care of yourself and stay strong. i wish you the best and i truly hope that life gets better for you.

Answer 3

when you put a question on here you are asking for people to answer you to help you over a problem, what you have to realize is not all the people answering the questions have the same view as you do, BUT after saying that, he deserves to be away if thats what he did to you, NO man should harm a woman no matter what she has done, SO just ignore all the stupid answers & only take to heart the ones that help YOU, good luck,

Answer 4

Ok i read this , and i also went back and read ur previous question..

Your husband and u get into a fight, he takes off with ur car, u call him to give it back, he's in a rage and some how or another ends up running u over with ur own car.. u luckily are ok.. he goes to jail for a domestic dispute?????? ummm i think if he were to of tried to run u over with his car that would be considered attempted murder and not a "domestic dispute" but none the less.. In ur last question u cant understand why he wont call u or get in contact with u.. ummmmm hun as much as i love my husband if he tried to do what u say ur husband did which is try to run u over with the car, i dont think all the love in the world would make me want him back, if he's capable of killing me then i wouldnt want him to have another try at it.. so this is my theory..

I think ur lying about the fact that he tried to "run u over" with ur car, or your exaggerating about it.. because thats more then a domestic dispute.. he would be trying to kill u at that point.. and unless u a complete loonie tune, no woman would want their husband back if they narrowly escaped death, no matter how much they loved him.. and ive been in a emotionally / physically abusive relationship before in my life, and all i ever wanted was a way out... I think u tend to push buttons in ur husband that drive him out of his mind, with so much anger that he cant control it.. (which doesnt mean its ur fault just sometimes peoples personalities dont mesh and they bring out the worst in each other) but i think u do.. and i think he is extremely right by staying the hell away from u.. its keeping him from wanting to kill u, which in the process would end ur life and ruin his.. if he did.. so to save himself, he knows he needs to save himself from you..

And dont act so shocked anyone with half a brain would want out of such a sick relationship that u and him have.. but yet ur upset cause the man u say tried to hurt u, wont call u????? Girl u need some serious therapy.. and he's DEFINATELY right by staying away from u ..for both of ur sakes..

And u both need to just get a divorce and stay away from each other.. for good..

Answer 5

sorry that it happened to you, but i missed your first part of this, if he ran you over in the middle of a dispute then yes he needs to go to "time out" (jail) and think about what he has done to you and now he can stay away forever!! so stay brave and i give you a pat on the back. IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT !!!!

Answer 6

Don't let people on this site ruin your spirit. He is where he needs to be and so are you. There is a purpose for you in this world that's why you're still here. Be proud and hold your head high and tell anyone who disagrees with you to kiss off.

Answer 7

No Mam , it is not your fault! I read both questions, and you did what you had to do. I'm behind you, like most here are, 100%! Don't let a few people upset you.....the vast majority of us support you, and your decison. Good Luck to you!

Answer 8

Well hon good for you now that your fine and he is in jail hope he will be in there for a while.

Someone was looking out for you so you must have done something right.Glad to hear your fine and good luck to you!!

Answer 9

You need to make sure that u go through with the divorce that you told him u was wanting. He is very dangerous and if he decides to do somehting like that again then it could mean your life.

Answer 10

Dont waste your time honey let the loosers think what ever they want!I know what your going thru ive been there and done that!SO let them all go to h$ll!!