2006-09-03 12:33:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I see you're at level 6 - congratulations. But maybe you spend too much time on the internet. Find something you REALLY like to do, with people who are interesting. Then the focus will be relating to other people, not on sex. It can just happen if you want to go to a prostitute, but obviously you would have been to one if that's all you wanted. Get out there and start looking for friends - not sex objects. You can have so much more fun with friends - and, trust me, it will eventually lead to something.
2006-09-03 12:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt reduce yourself to prostitution. Instead, try joining clubs or groups where you might meet people slowly in a non dating atmosphere, once you feel comfortable there, you can move on to trying to date. I would say that most women (or men) out there are looking for people with a good heart, and if you show that, many of them (many who are also socially awkward) will see that, and give you a chance. I would also be honest about it in the middle stages of a relationship, its not a first date fact to mention. There are also personals sites. but i would stick with hobby groups first. bowling would be good. it involves alcohol, which might loosen you up a bit.
2006-09-03 19:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by the howdy poke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... Rethink your why's.
Why be like most everyone else?
Why not look into eharmony.com?
Also, I totally recommend two books:
The Dream Giver
Rating Your Dating While Waiting for Mating
I recommend not simply settling for status quo. Status quo in terms of what the majority of society considered acceptable.
Continue to have character in waiting and simply reset your priorities as to why you want a relationship. You might be surprised at the outcome.
2006-09-03 19:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by DexterLoxley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't worry about it. And don't go to a prostitute! That is such a bad suggestion. Join some singles clubs, participate in speed dating, even check out those companies that set you up with people. You will find someone eventually.
2006-09-03 19:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gain confidence. Just be you, Don't sell out. you have waited this long for a reason, don't just give it a way to a hooker. When the right person comes along, she will like you for you. And the first time with anyone is always awkward....so don't worry about it.
2006-09-03 19:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being nasty, but hire out. You can go onto websites and pick an escort that will help you through your first time. I was still a virgin in my mid 30's ... same advice was given to me.
2006-09-03 19:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jerzey Daze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch "The Forty Year Old Virgin" and catch on to something?
2006-09-03 19:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, all you can be is yourself, and give it your best try to engage in a conversation with someone at church. Put a smile in your spirit and have confidence in your social skills. Someone will think you are something special if you do yourself.
2006-09-03 19:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by applelamb 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't reduce yourself to prostitution. There is more to life than sex and you will find someone that will set you on fire. I am firm believer in things that will happen, are bound to. Everything's eventual.
2006-09-03 19:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out and rent a hooker, she'll treat you like you're the best lover in the entire world!
2006-09-03 19:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋