My boyfriend of 2 years use to spend soo much time with me in the start of our relationship. Now he wants to be with his friends more and wants to stay home and playin poker online. He knows that I get upset when I ask him to stay here and he says he can't but then he's with his friend (wich is a guy). Is there anything I can do to get to come around a little more. I don't think he even cares anymore.
2006-09-03 12:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get a little more independent and shake him up. If you're not available to him all the time it'll give him time to miss you. It'll also make him wonder what you're up to. Spend time with friends and family, take a class, head out to the gym. No reason why you can't enjoy your life when he's not around. Look at it as bonus time for you. Once you change your attitude he'll probably come running and if he doesn't - well you'll be enjoying your life so much you probably won't notice he's not around.
2006-09-03 12:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by sunssecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first talk to him about my feelings - let him know you are feeling neglected- ask him where he thinks the relationship is going, then put it to the test. Get a hobby, get some friends and start enjoying oyurself- go out to the mall, out to coffee with girlfriends, take a class, etc. One of two things is going to happen-he is either going to wake up and smell the coffee and make an attempt to spend more time with you or you will get a life and find its time to move on and stop being dependant on him
2006-09-03 19:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isnt the answer as julie suggested!
Embrace your own life first. First step is to realize WHY you want him around you so much? Do you have nothing else to do but pine over him? Is there a chance that your life is wrapped to tightly around him? In a relationship, each person has to have their own independant identities too. You can't live your life through someone elses. Each person should be able to share their life with their partner and STILL be able to do their own hobbies and interests.
Time away from you doesn't mean he isnt interested in you...maybe he is feeling smothered by neediness?
2006-09-03 20:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by mrairtraffic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start going out yourself,find a guy friend and start having fun.your b/f,will come around.
2006-09-03 19:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has become very relax into the relationship...talk to him and tell him what you are feeling.....if that does not work..than be buck naked when he gets home..that will get his attention
2006-09-03 19:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this loser!!!
2006-09-03 20:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋