...and u got really pissed off with her, but then later she apologized because she felt bad, and u forgave her---would u be willing to be friends with her if u got along with her after that?
2006-09-03 12:18:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well first i'd abort it because the baby would have a stupid mother who can't spell.
2006-09-03 12:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I'd forgive her. She got this news that was just too big to contain. You told her because you just had to tell someone and then the same thing happened to her. To give someone news of this weight is a hard burden for them to hold and most times you have subconsciously recognized that beforehand. That is why you told her. She really does appear to be sorry so you should forgive her and yourself. Just remember that when the secret is so big you have to tell, don't tell unless you are aware you are telling everyone.
2006-09-03 19:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah because at least she apologized to you. That is a true and loyal friend. Someone who'll stick by you whenever you're in trouble or in need. So, yeah stay friends with her. She's the only one who knows who you really are in the inside.LOL
=D Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-03 19:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by buntigger2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she was wrong but everyone deserves a second chance, and everyone was going to know anyway. Besides people need a support system when they are pregnant, so she could be a possible candidate, and at least she admitted she was wrong, most people can't even do that. Just think about it
2006-09-03 19:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is the key factor. Forgive her as much as your heart can handle. However I wouldn't be quick to tell her secrets until a trust has been built.
2006-09-03 19:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she came to you first and told you she was sorry, than she probably is. If she was your friend before than you should accept her apology and stay friends BUT I would not tell her anything that you want kept secret. Once a blabber-mouth always a blabber- mouth.!!!!
2006-09-03 19:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by kayjoe25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, forgive her. I got mad at someone at work for telling everyone I was pregnant, and then she told me when the baby comes, everyone will be so happy and they'll forget (my mom was not speaking to me at the time). Yup, when the baby comes, everyone was oogling over it!!
2006-09-03 19:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know you're secrets are kept, is never to tell them. If you didn't want anyone to know, you should've kept it quiet. Having said that, in a way, she did what you did... gave away a secret. So you can't really be all that mad at her!!
2006-09-03 19:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Petey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told her not to tell anyone then tell her how you feel about what she did. But either way... forgive her. And also... don't be ashamed of your pregnancy... the less ashamed you are, the more possitive people will be about your situation.
2006-09-03 19:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u guys should be able to be on speeking terms, but shell nevr be a close frend like she was be4. dont trust her w/ anymor secrets. my frend also got pregnant and she trusted me w/ her secret and it was very hard to keep but i did until evry1 just saw and found out.
2006-09-03 19:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think I'd forgive her or be friends again.
It won't be the last time this girl stabs you in the back.
2006-09-03 19:21:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋