Some females in my country wear sleeveless , why can't I? What the best way to ask her to let me wear at least sleeveless clothes. And I'm only 12!
2006-09-03 12:07:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
because she loves you.
2006-09-03 12:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry For Interupting Women's Kitty Party Love, But , As you said you are a " Religious Muslim " then you should do what the Almighty Allah wants you to, He wants you to be a decent One and not from the Likes of Infedils. No Offence, Hijab is not necessary but Atleast you should wear what is allowed in Islam and not which is Explicit like the Sleeveless Clothes... Hope That Would Help you....
2016-03-26 21:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just do what your mother tells you to do. When your older you can make your own decisions and when your are her age maybe you'll understand why your mom doesn't want you to wear sleeveless shirts.
2006-09-03 12:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im not musilim but im twelve also. my parents are strict about this kinda thing. so heres my advice, do what i do. say "mom, i understand you think im to young to show that much of myself, but im not a little girl anymore. im almost a teenager. so, i would really like to wear a tanktop. it would be ok if you went with me and helped me pick out a few not to revealing, ones that are school appropriate, ect. In any case i respect your desicion, and i will wait to wear them if i have to."
~dont throw a fit if she says no. she may reconsider if you use amturity in the conversation. she'll probably think, 'well, she handled the conversation maturly, so i think she should get to wear them...."
you never know what mite happen! and good luck with getting your mom to let you!
2006-09-03 12:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by shazlett2102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your mom why, and when you do, give her reasons as to why she should let you wear skirts and stuff. If she says no, respect her answer, cause if you don't she will probably say no a lot more in the future than you would want her to.
2006-09-03 12:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by guitarloverr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yor mother is only trying to protect you. As a muslim woman you are supposed to dress modesty. There will always be people who break the rules. At you age your mother is responsible for your behavior. Once you are an adult you are responsible for your own actions and can make your own decisions.
2006-09-03 12:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age, I really wanted something to go my way and my parents said no. I wasn't going to take that as an answer, lol. So, I kept pushing on asking them. Till they finally gave in. I was really starting to sound like a broken record.
2006-09-03 12:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably because of your religion. just ask her like a regular person would and say "why cant i wear sleeveless shirts." good luck.
2006-09-03 12:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Stacy C♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but that is odd. my family is also muslim and i am allowed to wear whatever i want. But what about summer? it would be so hot especially not to wear shorts or skirts.
my suggestion is to talk to her and explain to her that it bugs you and that you would never wear those super mini skirts (they are right at the tip of your thighs).
good luck!
2006-09-03 12:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if some people jumped off a bridge would you.......if some people walked around naked would you.....if some people threw themselves into the fire wud u....wats with the everybody else is doing why cant i.....really lame reason to do anything at all, let along wear sleevless tops..i mean is thatall your concernd about...and so what if your mum and dad dont let you..what happened to respecting your elders and listening to what they say...they obviously saying it for a reason ask her why....and im sure you know why anyway...so dont be daft ok..i know your 12 but when i wa12 i knew what was rong and wat wasnt and i never questioned my parents......so dont do it ursefll..have some respect...shes tryin to tell you to respect yourself maybe..and maybe your relgion says so...dont u respect your relgion girl....if not then you can cavort around naked by all means
2006-09-03 12:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm sure your mom wants the best for you she wants to protect you , thats all !
but i don't think she would mind if you wears it infront of other women or your girl friends? ask her if its ok
cos it's ok to wear skirts in islam but not infront men !
2006-09-03 12:19:20 · answer #11 · answered by KSAGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋