Hi this boy has asked asked out a few girls the one before said yes but dumped him soon after. Then a couple of days later he asked me out and i said yes. I thought o well it would be nice to have a bf after a while being single. But someone told me that he asked another girl out not to long ago. So i then asked one of my freinds (boy) if he reckoned that my bf was taken me for a ride. Then he had a big go at me for askin and called me some stuff on msn. Now I think hes goin to tell my bf should i feel guilty. Im really worried might happen. Has anyone any good advice?
2006-09-03 11:58:53 · 17 answers · asked by jemaple 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The question is Do you liek him or did you just want a trpohy BF? I am guessing you are not very old and maybe don't want to be "uncool single girl" at school? If that's the case, then go out with him, but make sure the boundaries are set - he may be asking a few girls out as he doesn't want to be "uncool single guy" at school!
As for the boy you asked - he's not a friend to go mad at you and threaten to tell your boyfriend. Dump him, keep the bf if you liek him. And if you are as young as I think _ enjoy the time together without expecting anything.
2006-09-03 12:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by kingofclubs_uk 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, he came to and I bet another one will to. The guy friend you mentioned doesn't sound like a friend at all to you. I would be more careful in the future on how you go about getting your information. Good luck.
2006-09-03 12:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEEEZZZZZ School can be rough. Here's my advice. Talk to your boyfriend!!!! Talk is not overrated, hormones are. Talk, Talk, Talk. Tell him your concerns, tell him you asked someone and tell him you obviously feel guilty for what you did. But, if you are going out with him for "oh it would be nice to have a bf" then it's no big deal. If you break up then you break up. If you really like him and you are worried, TALK!
2006-09-03 12:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by llbm3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every women out there should know that no one can tell you nothin about your man, because if they don't have anyone they will tell you what you don't want to hear and it can go any way, so your best bet is to just ask him whatever you want to know yourself and in person, and I say in person because you can tell by someone's reaction if they are telling the truth or not.
2006-09-03 12:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget these guys and try to find a nice guy who will care about you. They are out there if you look hard enough. Dont feel guilty at all. Good luck
2006-09-03 12:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by marcus p 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First go back to school and learn how to write a letter asking this question and then come back and ask again. You see when you were writing it was very confusing to understand you and unable to find out which boyfriend did what. Good Luck and Best Wishes
2006-09-03 12:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Louisa R 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
then obviously thats not your friend....why would any REAL friend interfere with your realationship (good or bad).....first, need to get real friends, second if it's really bothering you about the rumors then ask him.....just tell him, you're hearing things and you rather hear it from him than from anyone else, is it true or what???? If he gets an attitude then kick his *ss to the curb...a real man appreciates when a woman asks questions instead of accusing him......
2006-09-03 12:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid
not worth it
your bf sounds an idiot
the mate sounds an idiot
you have nothing to feel guilty about
:)
2006-09-03 12:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by markfarmer593 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don`t feel guilty, you need to know the answers. (Deja vu?) If there is trouble, give him a wide berth and find someone else, there`s always someone else.
2006-09-03 13:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haven't you asked this question 3 times already?!
2006-09-03 12:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by dazed & confused 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋