2006-09-03 11:52:51 · 7 answers · asked by Cora P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think the easiest way would be to bring up good-looking guys: "Do you think so-and-so is cute?" When you ask this, be sincere, like you really want his opinion. How he answers will give you a clue. Heterosexual guys literally think NO guy is cute. Bi guys do see guys that they feel are attractive.
By the way, why are you "afraid"? Being bisexual doesn't mean he's twice as likely to cheat on you, you know! Hetero guys are attracted to half the women they see, but most of them are able to remain faithful. Bisexual guys probably see slightly more people to whom they're attracted, but trustworthiness is a trait you must assess on a case-by-case basis.
So, in conclusion, stop focusing on his sexuality and start focusing on how much you trust him or don't trust him. What counts is not who he sees as attractive, but how sure you feel that he can be faithful to you.
2006-09-03 12:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid he is bi? Whats to be afraid of? We are all a degree of bisexual from a sociological standpoint. I'm sure you've watched a woman do something that is somewhat arousing to you?
Regardless, its his decisions and impulses to deal with...not yours. You have a few options. 1) Believe what the above dumb posted said and believe he is "high risk" now. Being attracted to another man or being a bit feminine doesnt mean he's f'n guys in the butt. I know TONS of completely straight girls that will drop on any guy in a bar and I would consider them a lot more "high risk" then most gay guys i 've met. or 2) Be a real person with a mature and compassionate attitude in a relationship and understand that signals may confused and you are wrong. If you are right, i assure you its harder to deal with that situation then it is for you...if you care about him...care about HIM. NOT YOU!
Its a hell of a lot easier to make it through life if you offer someone you have a commitment to some consideration and compassion for their situations instead of focusing on yourself and judging or labeling them. Because someday you'll wish you had that support yourself.
2006-09-03 13:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by mrairtraffic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HONEY.
I would love to have a bi boyfriend.
He can shop with you.
So many other things that no straight guy would do.
Yet, he still loves women.
2006-09-03 11:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Katelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even THINK he's bi, then he is. Listen to your instincts. Then realize he is engaging in high risk behavior. Have your doctor check you for HIV and STDs.
2006-09-03 12:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to bring the topic up during sex with dirty talk...talk about a threesome with another girl and then another guy...see where he takes the conversation.
2006-09-03 11:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~My guess would be if he only wants Hea.d or Jac.ked off or in the but.t then that would be big sighn... no kissing no touching except to him then that is a big sighn to..!~
2006-09-03 12:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by dreamzzz102 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant tel if your b/f is bie
2006-09-03 12:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋