I'm so sad. My twin sister is getting married and plans on moving to the other side of the country. I got a feeling of what it would be like this weekend becuase she is out of town. I'm bored and lonely. I'm afraid it'll will feel like this when she's gone. I'd have any easier time if she got married and stayed in our hometown but that's unlikely. Any advice to help deal with this change.
2006-09-03 11:40:35 · 11 answers · asked by Sydney 4 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
You need to pursue friendships in your area. Find other people to hang out with and talk to. You can have really, really good friends that you can be close to. They won't take the place of your sister. They aren't supposed to, but your life can't stop because your sister's life went on. You will still be in touch with your sister. If y'all were that close, I can't imagine that you won't spend time talking on the phone and chatting and emailing. Life changes as we grow up and we have to adjust. Good luck, sweetie.
2006-09-03 12:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always wanted a twin, that's gotta be totally rough on you. Keep in mind that with technology now you can e-mail each other, call each other, and send text messages any time you want. Of course that doesn't help much, and visits can only last for so long and are usually far apart. Have you tried asking your sister if she could perhaps choose someplace alittle closer to home until you're used to her being gone?
2006-09-03 11:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW my older sister moved away yet she joined the army so I no I ant go c her back I cant cry cuz I attempt to no longer think of approximately N I mean we did each and every element mutually i finished doing issues that jogged my memory of her and found out I went MIA then I had to proceed with my existence I confer along with her on the telephone tho
2016-09-30 07:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things you enjoy doing or would like to try and get involved. This will have two benefits. First, you can learn/do something new. Second, you will increase the likelihood of meeting good people to fill the void left by your sister.
2006-09-03 11:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wish her well and be happy for her. Visit her often or maybe even think about moving closer to her. Tell her how you feel and if you don't plan on relocating, then start working on making some new friends.
2006-09-03 11:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard at first but you will get used to it. Keep in touch by phone and on the net. Join some groups and make some new friends.
2006-09-03 11:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a true loss. There are many in our lives. More as we get older. Mourning is the only answer. Then we move on.
2006-09-03 12:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dose she have ur same avatar
any way i think you just have to deal with the change if i were you i would try really hard to try and get used to it becuase you should've made up ur mind months ago becuase no matter what you would get sepperated.
any way GOODLUCK!!!!
2006-09-03 11:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure if you can find their diary about their life it probably somewhere in their room because I did that when my sister left for college to UNLV. it was funny reading all of her diaries and all of her boyfriend's love letter. lol
2006-09-03 11:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Matthew Zajac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll call a lot, and you'll feel lonely. But eventually you'll find other friends to spend time. You'll still miss your sister, but you'll be OK.
2006-09-03 11:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋