Would you date someone who has a child??? Cuz I been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months and he use go with this girl and they had a baby, well at first he thought it wuz his then his mother made him take a blood test and before the results came back the girl told him that the baby wasn't for him, so they just got the results and he found that the baby is for him, the girl thought the baby wasn't for him cuz she wuz ****** somebody else at the time...but here's the twist, everyone i ask do he have a child they always say "i never knew for him to have a baby", i don't know wut to believe cuz he own friends say that they never knew he wuz suppose to have a child...so i'm going to his house later on today and i'm going to ask he sister is this true
2006-09-03 11:38:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There's nothing wrong with dating a guy who already has a bay...yet if you are looking for someone who is husband and father material..if he and his friends and all say they never head of him having a child, he must not be father material because if he was then everyone would know about the baby, it would be the love of his life. And, if you had a baby and were sigle, would you want guys to turn you down just cuz you have a kid already? Just don't expect the long haul from someone who doesn't care to tell anyone about the child they already have.
2006-09-03 11:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Memigen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently we need to focus not only on sex education, but also spelling and grammar in our schools.
Anyway...I have two kids from previous relationships and my fiance has accepted them whole heartedly. We're expecting our child in January. My Dad isn't my real father, he married into a "ready made family" when he married my Mom. I haven't seen my real father in over 20 years, and as far as I'm concerned, he was just the sperm donor, I have a real Dad, he's the one who has been there for the last 23 years.
2006-09-03 18:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I'm just a child myself, but when I'm in my 20s I won't want to. Because usually it means the guy is much older than me or he had kids in highschool, and I don't go for guys with those kinds or morals. But if you love him, go for it. You will probably end up loving his daughter.
2006-09-03 18:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it that big of a deal? a baby! would you want someone to decide whethere they wanted 2 be with you by you having a baby or not... was he honest from the beginning
2006-09-03 19:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Bossy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very confusing . Yes , if my husband and myself ever divorced I would date someone that has children.
2006-09-03 18:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the blood test came back positive, it's his.
2006-09-03 18:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Trinity♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i say continue your relationship with him, and just hope he is lying...which would be a very stupid thing to lie about, and just ask someone in his family...good luck
2006-09-03 18:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Taquila (Celtics Fan) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our opinions do not matter, this is something you will have to do on your own.
Can you say run on sentence?
2006-09-03 18:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him he sounds like a pimp.
2006-09-03 18:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by dpjejj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, sorry
2006-09-03 18:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋