i understand that it is wrong to engage in sexual activity with anyone before marriage.. why is god against that ? also .. do you believe " fooling around " is equally wrong even if it never led to sex?
2006-09-03 11:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this was just a .. wondering question i guess .. i have been married :P
2006-09-04 04:34:17 · update #1
hi no need fooling around,stay away from premarital sex,do not smell what you dont wanna eat .....
2006-09-03 11:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Covenant Family Network Intl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if fooling around invovle sex organs it is wrong bcuz it is some type of fornication
sex before marriage is wrong bcuz thr r many consequences like commiting fornication which is a sin, u can get pregnant and have the baby outside of marriage which is not good, u can have any type of std, the man might leave u and use u jus 4 sex
now y go the difficult way? jus wait 4 that special some1 that u can trust and get 2 kno them very well and get married have sex and he should share the same beleifs as u so u 2 would b strong enough 2 face problems and not b separate.
2006-09-03 18:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it says in the bible to keep yourself pure until your are married, and this is also consider adultery which is one of the ten commandments.
Fooling around can get the hormomes ragging and you can get to a point that you will not be able to stop. This could also lead to an unwamted pregenancy and put another innocent child at stake.
2006-09-03 18:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by granny b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God calls you to be holy. So even fooling around with the other person you are not honoring God with your body. Remember that your body is the temple of the holy spirit. sex is awesome when you get married to the person because both of you become one. Fooling around could only last for so long, eventually you are going to get bored of doing that and you are going to want more.Which will lead to sex. When you have sex with a person you become one in the spirit with them, so God doesnt want you to have sex with mulitiple partners become you'll be one with a million people. Not only are you going to be having sex with that person but with everyone else that they have had sex with. And all of that brings a lot of baggage and problems in the long run. So my advice to you is to remain holy. The best gift you could give your husband , is your virginity because your going to be giving him all of you.. not just the left overs
2006-09-03 18:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God isn't against sex, He just wants us to be pure. There is nothing wrong with kissing as long as it is not going to lead to sex.
2006-09-03 18:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther is nothing wrong to fool around and take pleasures of this life you don't have follow somebodys rules they can keep for themselves
2006-09-03 18:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its just not a good idea, look at the problems you are having in your marriage
2006-09-03 18:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong because God wants us to save our relationships for our spouses and not do that stuff
2006-09-03 18:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋