slipping further into the bleak cesspit of abject misery and hoplessness- and why do you find yourself actually wanting to do it; a random miserable day turns out to be wanting/desperately not wanting to be left on your lonesome, feeling that no-one gives a sod- while deliberately giving out vibes suggesting you want it that way, bawwllllling your tiny eyes out then when someone asks whats wrong you tell them nothing- then resent the fact that that they can't see you're on the thin edge of life's wedge- because be buggered if I know........
2006-09-03 11:23:13 · 18 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
LMAO!!
I know exactly what you mean.. this weekend has been the bleakes cesspit of abject misery and hoplessness for me... yes self inflicted and yes randomly chosen by myself.
starting to feel slightly upliffted after reading your question though so thank you!
2006-09-03 11:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a vicious circle I'm afraid. I think it all has something to do with the fact that when you are miserable and looking hopeless, people notice you and give you the attention you crave. They ask you what is wrong and want to help you. They show concern. And the more concern they show, the more attention you want. And you say nothing is wrong because if they were to know what was wrong, then they may be able to sort the problem out for you and then where would you be? No problem to solve=no more concern or attention.
I am not saying you are an attention seeker. Please don't take it the wrong way. What I am saying is that you are craving attention, you're crying out for help. Only you won't accept the help.
You are going to have to open up chick, because these feelings are going to swallow you up and drive these concerned people away from you.
Take care, and good luck xx
2006-09-07 04:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By taking a look at what you have got, not what you haven't got. I was on the edge of depression once bought tablets to finish myself when my husband left me with three little ones for a cheap floozy (my best friend) two things stopped me, one is that my children would find me, the other is that I couldn't get the lid off the tablets, bloody child-proof lids.
Life sometimes deals you a bad hand, put them back in the pack and take some more cards.
2006-09-06 10:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to mention this , but dont know why I'm sorry really. Are u premenstrual? it makes so much difference you know but even when you're older sometimes it takes someone to suggest that might be the reason you're so bad today, cos when you are everything else goes out the window and you dont stop and consider thats why today is that much worse. I know it sounds really gooney but if you havent tried it b4 try noting down in a diary the worst days and you might find they go in a cycle. Of course if not, anti depressants I'd go with. Good luck.
2006-09-03 11:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by lennylil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most ppl in life dont have ESP. So if you cant communicate what is wrong with you. How are they suppose to guess? Sounds to me like you need to find someone, anyone who will listen and just let it all out. I feel better usually after I do. Good luck
2006-09-03 11:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tr St. Johns Wort.
It's a natural anti-depressant and may help settle the chemical imbalances that are causing you to feel like this.
If it hasn't worked after a couple of weeks then you need to seek professional help.
With todays treatments you don't need to suffer like this.
2006-09-03 11:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of the gloom a voice came out and said unto me "Smile and be happy, things could be worse." So I smiled and I was happy and behold things did get worse..... I think that sounds like your motto.
My motto however is "If you don't laugh then you'll cry"....so you might as well laugh and look on the positive side of life.......a much healthier and happier way to live.....
2006-09-03 11:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and mix with a new circle of friends... you need to be Surrounded with people who make you laugh!
The more you laugh the less depressed you'll feel.
Eat lots of chocolate too!!
2006-09-03 11:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too composed to be serious, therefore funny!
It's a short life in the scale of the Cosmos. Me, I'll weep when I'm dead.
2006-09-03 11:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the samaritans are good to talk to, or get some happy pills from the doc, you could try chocolate but it dont last long, or go and have a good evening with your mates
2006-09-03 11:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by jewls1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋