I am so close to cheating on him and we're engaged...?

Question

My co-worker and I almost did the deed right here at work, like about 15 min ago. I am sooo horny and so wet right now, but I don't wanna f**k my fiance, I wants this dude. We have been together several times before and he always gets me like this. I can be havin sex with my future husband and think of my co-worker and how his tounge-ring feels on my c**t. I am caught between a "rock" hard d**k and a hard place...what to do?

ok...I did break things off with my fiance at one time for this exact same man. The co-worker and I won't ever be in a relationship, we have already discussed it. So I just want to have my cake and eat it too, before I get married...is that so bad?

I am glad everyone is so passionate about this, pls continue to be honest.

What if I called it quits with the co-worker rigth now?

Answer 1

Is this so bad??????????? LMAO, if u dont think its so bad why dont u go ask ur fiance if its ok to have sex with this other guy.. since in your head its fine to have sex with him since ur not married yet, although u've promised your hand in marriage to this man, I DARE YOU.. to go ask him if its ok .. i DARE YOU, to show him this question, if its not so bad, then he'll say sure hun, and let u have at it.. but im guessing he has no clue what a little whore u are, that u would cheat on him after u promised to devote the rest of ur life to him.. then he will end up marrying u not knowing that ur a whore, and he will think he has the perfect wife, and perfect marriage, based all upon a lie.. till one day when u find it convient again not to live up to your word or promises to him.. your cheat again cause well u got away with it once so u'll get away with it again? RIGHT? then one day as all lies do eventually come out, he will find out what a little whore he has married, and he will either stay cause he's trapped and doesnt want to hurt his kids, and be miserable with a woman that never deserved his love in the first place, or he'll leave cause the mere thought of the woman he loves being with another man will eat his heart and soul till he's nothing but a shell of the man that he use to be, and need to get away from u, thus , hurting his kids and ruining their lives forever because they didnt ask to have such a immature whore for a mother that couldnt do right by their father and now their lives are now screwed to hell and back simply because their mom was stupid and thought it was ok TO cheat on their dad even though she promised him she would be his forever.. GREAT GOING.. theres ur future.. u now by cheating on him with a co-worker for one night of passion have ruined ur non-existant marriage, your husband and possible kids in the future with ur lies , deceit and unfaithfulness..

Answer 2

What you need to do is to call off the engagement. If you do not want to be with him, at least be respectful and tell him that you really are not sure that you would like to make such a big decision right now such as marriage and that you would like to see other people. At least you do not get married and then do the unforgiven deed and then go through an ugly divorce. Out of respect for your fiance call it off and just tell him that you are sorry, but that you think it is only fair that you do it now. This is the best for you and for him. Now if you do this you better be sure that the grass is greener and make sure that what you are giving up is worth this other individual. Lot of times people mess up and then they realize that the grass is not always greener, and that if you do this you will probably lose your fiance forever. So make sure of this before you make such a big decision. If you decide to stay with your fiance, you must at all costs leave this other guy alone at all costs.

Answer 3

If you did end up sleeping with your co-worker, how would you feel afterwards emotionally? The forbidden fruit does seem incredibly appetizing, but you'd be hurting yourself and your fiance in the end. If you still feel like you want to sleep with this guy, be fair to your fiance and say you are having doubts and you want to take a break to explore. Don't saddle yourself into a relationship with your fiance simply for the sake of it. You'll end up being unhappy and unsatisfied. And if you're feeling that way now, before you make a huge committment, it's only going to get worse.

Answer 4

You need to decide which one you want. Do you want the office fling or the man your engaged to. It sounds to me that you no where near ready to get married or for that fact even be engaged. Being engaged to someone means you are totally committed to them, not going behind there back having office sex.

Obviously the guy at work knows your engaged, so that makes me wonder what kind of guy is he really. Obviously he doesn't respect the fact that your engaged and spoken for, because if he did, he wouldn't be doing this.

Trust me when your little office romp is over, he will move on and you will not only find it very difficult to continue to work there, but what you had before will be gone.

Is it really worth it to loose everything so you can go tag some guy at work.

Answer 5

I would definitly say your fiance is not the one, he might have good things that you like about him but you need someone that can tame those urges, I wouldn't do anything with the co-worker, you reap what you sew and trust me end the end you'll be crying, I would break things off with my fiance though or tell him you need a man that makes you feel like a woman and see if he's willing to compromise and be more spontaneous

Answer 6

nicely for sure he has a attractive to be disappointed... I recommend the completed time he concept issues have been going nicely (thinking he proposed to you) and actually you have been sound asleep with somebody else and putting in limbo, you had no thought what you wanted. he isn't any doubt feeling betrayed using fact he depended on you and you abused that believe.. believe is a few thing that would not come elementary, you're able to desire to artwork for it and you controlled to break it so now you're able to desire to artwork at getting it back. issues can't magically pass back to how issues have been.. using fact issues have been a lie back then. you're able to desire to talk to him and ask him outright if he nonetheless desires to marry you.. and you're able to desire to appreciate notwithstanding decision he makes using fact he did not make an pronounced decision while he asked you. If he would not desire to marry you and thinks its maximum suitable you end it then particularly easily, i would not blame him... terrible difficulty to be in. in spite of the shown fact that, if he does come to a decision he desires to make issues artwork yet desires time to choose the subject concerns then i might recommend retaining off on any wedding ceremony plans, pass see a counsellor, communicate out any thoughts you're the two having, sturdy or undesirable and attempt to get previous them. i might recommend additionally putting off something bodily between you 2 until eventually you could come to a decision the subject concerns because it only confuses issues. What do you're able to desire to lose via asking and working out the place you stand? in case you do not you face being with somebody who resents you and finally the relationship will fail anyhow..

Answer 7

If you are having feelings for another man already and you are not even married to your fiance, you should just let your fiance go. You are not ready for a marriage yet. Don't hurt your fiance.

Answer 8

Shake a tail feather girl i'm sure neither of you are going to tell your fiance. Besides you're not married yet and you two have history, if it was a new guy I would say no but a "lunch date" with an old friend is harmless.

Answer 9

If u wanna be with this "other dude" then do your fiance a favor and call off your engagement first so he can have a chance with a woman who will be faithful to him.

Answer 10

better make some decisions now before you get married but think of how strange it is going to be going to work with a co-worker you slept with... be ready for the wierd looks, gossip and drama that comes with it.