Everything, and I mean everything that I do I mess up. I even know that I'm messing sh#it up while I am doing it, but I just keep on fu#cking sh#t up. why??
2006-09-03 10:59:44 · 15 answers · asked by water_n_sunshine26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe too impulsive? My husband does that stuff and that is why.
2006-09-03 11:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do everything wrong, and I can prove it. You set out to write your Yahoo! question using no correctly-spelled profanity, and you succeeded!
So, stop exaggerating the bad stuff, because that will only make you feel worse. Take a look around -- there are certainly lots of things you do well. At times like these, when it seems clear to me that you're feeling particularly unhappy with yourself about a mistake you have made, it's especially important to count your blessings and review your successes.
Get out a notebook or a blank piece of paper, and list 10 things you have accomplished, of which you are proud. These don't have to be things you did perfectly, but they should be things you did well enough to count them as successes. It may sound impossible, but once you start, you'll see that you can list 10 things -- and more. Then, put your list where you can find it.
Every time you feel upset at yourself, like you do now, give yourself a few minutes of time to feel sorry about it, and then make yourself think how you could have done better in the future. If you find yourself still feeling bad, get out your list, and force yourself to add one more good thing to it. Re-read the whole list again, and then you will definitely feel better.
2006-09-03 11:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you need to do is calm down and when you have just take it easy and think twice about things before you do them and then take your time and things will fall into place for you
you are a beautiful young lady with the world at your fingertips ,change your attitude slightly and all will be fine good luck
2006-09-03 11:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up and confer with him in guy or woman approximately what occurred. Messages do no longer consistently placed across your real emotions and intentions. in case you rather need him to comprehend you're sorry attain out to him in a fashion that does no longer contain the information superhighway.
2016-09-30 07:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all mess stuff up.Don't be so hard on yourself.I went through a year like that and then some how I stopped.Be patient with yourself
2006-09-03 11:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc u havent grown up yet. i had a reckless boyfriend like that too, its just not ur time yet. but ur time will come, and ull see a big difference when you're ready to grow up some!
2006-09-03 11:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you going with attitude "i will mess it up"
try " i am perfect and do it right" and Believe in it
reward yourself for even a small accomplishment
2006-09-03 11:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Know_it_all 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to explore this topic further. but, generally speaking, try to stick to things you KNOW you are good at and leave the rest to the pros.
2006-09-03 11:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,,, maybe your trying too hard,,,, life is not easy at its best,, so sit back and think about what your going to do......before you do it..lol
Good luck
2006-09-03 11:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the way you're programmed - I have a brother who is the exact same way - time for damage control
2006-09-03 11:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋