We've been friends for over 7 years now. A year ago he got married with his long time girlfriend (which I've never seen). We have always kept in touch all these years (eventhough I lived 4 years in another country) and now we live in the same city and we see each other often and everytime we see we can't stop kissing ( I know it's not right!! but I can't help it). The thing is that I'm deeply in love with him (and he know's it) but (of course) he is not. I don't know what to do to to forget him. I simply can't take him out of my heart. I meet new guys but nothing seems to keep him away from me. He calls me often to check on me. He is my friend and we share a lot so I don't think it's fair for him to stop talking so that I can forget him. I thinks is my problem to have feelings for him. am I right? what should I do? I don't want to loose his friendship but I can't live like this.....Should I stop talking to him? Should I talk to him about how bad I feel?
2006-09-03 10:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by Maria Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just leave it alone.You don't every1 refering to you as "the other woman".Find some1 else.(who's single)
2006-09-03 11:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is a good guy but your feeling are different. You love him, he loves his wife. You cant make someone love you, it wouldnt be real. Sweetheart, you have to move on. If talking to him everyday is hard on you then you have to stop. The thing I have a problem with is that he knows how you feel, yet he cant stop kissing you when you see him? He calls to check on you? For what? Girl get away. He is eating all the attention up. He is leading you on because it is fun for him. He may care for you, but he doesnt love you. Dont waste your time on him any longer, there is someone for you, be patient and the best will come. The reason you cant get him out of your heart is because he wont let you. I dont want to sound mean but it seems like he is keeping you on the back burner when he wants to be unfaithful to his wife, and kissing another woman is being unfaithful. He has no respect for either of you. A good man is hard to find but there are some. Keep searching. The reason you cant forget him is because you have not met the right one yet.
2006-09-03 18:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by latasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to read all the details, but be careful if its not a friendship your willing to loose leave it alone
2006-09-03 18:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by osu_fanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW....u just reminded me of "my best friends wedding" lol...you know...when Julia just falls for best friend the day he got mairred to antoher girl....back to the point, you have to move one, you'll find antoher guy...he's already married....if you say u love him now, it will proably mess everything up and you dont want to wreck one friendship and one love between them. I'm sure you're beautiful and you'll find antoher guy...wow...this is the best advice i've given anyone beofre lol...well...hope this helps.
2006-09-03 18:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by Vietnam_sweeite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello well i think that if he knows how you truly feel, and he still will not leave his wife then i believe you should tell him that it would be best if you guys stop talking becasue it would be easier for your heart to forget... remmeber out of sight out of mind.... you deserve to be happy and you are not gonna be happy until you get this guy out of your heart...
2006-09-03 18:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fell bad just, don't kiss him. Often when it won't work you get over it.
2006-09-03 18:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋