for 5 years now. One year in the state where I was living and 4 in the state she lived in. We have many financial and relationship problems. I gave up my farm to be with her and have spent all my finances on a home and other necessities since moving here. She works and I stay home with her kids. She does not show me any affection and has no interest in sex since 4 years ago. I do not trust her because she runs to her ex husband with all her problems.What do I do?
2006-09-03 10:58:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay with her and work it out,or leave...
2006-09-03 11:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that your whole relationship took a turn for the worse when you moved to her home town is it that she doesnt make time for you anymore or that your drifting apart . my suggestion is to talk with her and have a serious talk about your relationship and find out if its worth working on to get it back to where it was 4 yrs ago or move on and find a way that you both can be happy cause at this point if you dont get things worked out the relationship will only cause you both resentment towards each other and will be fated to a possible bad ending
2006-09-03 11:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by wiz of ia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave man. Life is too short to beg a woman for affection after all you have given up. How can you stay with a woman you do not trust? It will hurt a little but leave.
2006-09-03 11:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by The Turk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that you guys should get counseling. The meer fact that you have been together for 5 years and are still boyfriend and girlfriend says something.
2006-09-03 11:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back to Arkansas, let her have the kids, file for bankruptacy, and get a divorce. That should make you feel all better.
2006-09-03 11:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you contributing financially? if not shes frustrated, esp since ur home with the kids while she works, and since she runs to her ex i think you need to really reconsider the relationship and if its not working for you then you need to get out b4 someone gets really hurt and her kids will get hurt in this process as well, you need to think of the kids in this. take my advice and think about it b4 someone gets hurt esp the kids think about them.
2006-09-03 11:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is into your relationship anymore. I think she may be seeing her ex-husband again. Maybe she is not a lesbian anymore. She seems dishonest, and like she doesn't trust you. You should talk to her about it.
2006-09-03 11:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it then look a job get on r feet and when ucan afford to be on ur own keave her. thats if things don't get better after u cnfront her or if u still don't trust her. but u should still get a job then she can't say she has to support u.
2006-09-03 11:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by ScholarlyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is your plan? you do have a plan don't you! [ your plan in case it didn't work]
2006-09-03 11:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋