if someone u know really well and speak to practically everyday, and then suddenly did something to u that hurt ur feelings alot, what would u do?
a:ignore them for days
b:tell them that hurt ur feelings
c:all of the above
or d:other
2006-09-03 10:25:02 · 17 answers · asked by ze mage's world 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell them the truth, yes they will be hurt and angry, but being honest is more a friendship than keeping how you feel to yourself. I have a best friend for 20 years, we were 6 when we meet and we are still friends, even though now we live 500 miles apart. We fought like friends do but we were honest with eachother, and we hurt eachothers feelings but we fixed it and moved on and forgot about it. And we never talked about eachother behind eachothers back when we were mad, we respected eachother and our friendship to do that. Just talk to your friend, go to a private place and talk. Express to them that you value their friendship and that they hurt your feelings, if they are a true friend they will live up to and say they are sorry.
2006-09-03 10:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by hopelovesu2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself would more than likely ignore them for days, but since I am supposed to be giving helping advice, choose b and explain why it hurt your feelings
2006-09-03 17:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by youngblade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a: ignore them for days
because if u try telling them how u feel it may make them mad so then they wont want anything to do with u but if u leave them alone then they have time 2 sort out if they still want to be ur friend ur choose thogh GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 17:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by HP phreek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ignore them as long as i possible could before telling them that they hurt my feelings but i also must say things never worked out in my favor after doing so
2006-09-03 17:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell that person in a calm voice what has hurt you.
2006-09-03 17:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course tell them they hurt your feelings. communication is the only way.
2006-09-03 17:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt talk to him for a day or 2 and ingnore untill he asks whats wrong, but if it blows over before that let it go...
2006-09-03 17:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt ignore them, but you should almost hate them enough to let them know that you're annoyed with them, so they should realise what they've done and if there decent enough the'll apoligise
2006-09-03 17:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B i think dat wud work
2006-09-03 17:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably C and a little bit of D
2006-09-03 17:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by shebunkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋