technically he was entittled as I had ask him to put his name on documents but heknew that it was mine , now I live with someone and am homeless . I wrote and asked him for it. he replied ... dear Sir. get lost. ( bastard ) what would you do .
2006-09-03 10:21:32 · 18 answers · asked by adventurerinsun 2 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
there are loadsa reasons that ppl put there house under other ppls name "melissa s..."..one of them being that maybe she bought anothe house under her name ...and put the othe ones in her sons...lots more reason too..wat her son did is wrong..if you cant trust your son , who can u trust...lifes ****...
2006-09-03 10:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by whistleblower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why couldn't you have your name on the documents?
It sounds a little flaky though since it sounds like the purchase was in your name but the sale was in your sons name.
Where is the documentation showing your selling the house to your son?
Was any of this agreement between you and your son in writing or witnessed by anyone who would be willing to testify in court on your behalf?
If the house was purchased in your sons name do you have any documentation showing the transfer of funds from your account to his or a receipt showing his acceptance of the money?
You can legally only gift a child with $10,000 a year before that money has to be reported by the child on their income taxes.
You may also be able to write off the money for the house purchase as a capital loss if it was just given away to your son.
Make sure you contact your church, The Salvation Army and get contact information from your local police or sheriff on shelters and organizations that can help you out.
I've been homeless (twice) myself and I know it is really hard.
If you have a van you can outfit that to temporarilly live out of with a marine toilet, bed and sink.
If you have transportation you can still get to a job, put your stuff in storage if you can and get a monthly fitness club membership to have some place to shower and shave so you can still be presentable at your job or to find a new job.
Good luck.
Note: Beer Farts, anyone can go into a public library and use the internet access there. All you need is an ID and a library card.
2006-09-03 17:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by sworddove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm! Get sound legal advice. Put together all relevant documents (& I mean ALL documents) & present them to either a Solicitor or (if you are homeless & penniless) to the Citizens Advice Bureau. Make it a legal matter, & keep Family emotions out of it. Do your research thoroughly; knowledge is power, and since your Son has taken a most belligerent stance, use the law to it's fullest, & ensure that compensation is accounted for.
Stop thinking of this b*****d as your Son; he's no kin of yours if he behaves in that manner. We have a word for people like him! Get Tough!!
Good Luck!
2006-09-03 17:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Actionman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the house was in his name then in the eyes of the law he's done nothing wrong.
If you two signed some sort of contract stating that it was your money but in his name and the money would be returned to you in the event of a sale then that is a different story; you can sue for your money.
But if theres nothing in writing then you are pretty much left in the dark.
Try Citizen's Advice Bureau if you live in the UK.
2006-09-03 17:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart from punching the selfish idiot untill he can no longer draw breath, i would publically shame him so he can't even enjoy what he has. Get in touch with the local gossip magazines, you will get paid a few hundred for your story, in fact see if the local newspapers will be interested. This fool needs to realise who gave him the gift of life!. Print a load of posters saying what he is and what he has done and stick them up everywhere. If he is working go to his workplace and tell his collegues what he has done, tell his friends. The more he knows that you won't take this lying down the more chance you have of him coming to some agreement. Shout this from the rooftops untill he is too humiliated to breath. I hate greed and betraying your own. Better still, send me around to his house, he won't even know who he is after i've finished with him!!!!! Also get a tape recording of him acknowledging that you paid for the house. Take it to court!
2006-09-03 17:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by DONNAIS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sue him, it is not fair what he has done. Get all documents where you can prove the house was bought by you and bring them to a lawyer. I am sure you can do something about it. I dont understand how people can be so selfish, you'll teach him a lesson.
2006-09-03 17:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by petelephant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult your Lawyer. Keep the Letter as "some" evidence. Write another letter, and try to "word" it in such a way, that
the "Reply" Letter, will explain some of what he did. Is it possible, to record his conversation over the phone? Just trying to get up some evidence for you. Just try and stay calm, through this. GET A LAWYER! IF HE CAN'T HELP YOU, TRY ANOTHER ONE.
2006-09-03 18:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~Terr~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely children are a product of their up-bringing and genetics, since I trust you had a hand in both, surely you should be proud.
Also, would it not eventually have ended up his anyway, are you not just avoiding two lots of tax on the same property staying in YOUR family?
It's a bummer for you, but that is trust for you isn't it. I'd say go and move in with him - that'll learn him.
2006-09-03 17:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is evil and no doubt related to my ex. He did the same thing..
If his name was on it it was just added to yours and you still own half of it...he couldn't see without your signature. If he did you can get him on fraud. Save the letter and bring it to a lawyer. Even if your intentions were good...he deceived you. You never expected him to sell it from under you. Go git him.
Do what ever it takes....persevere..this is elderly abuse. and Best of Luck.
2006-09-03 18:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never seen a homeless person with access to the net
2006-09-03 17:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No real son would do such a thing, not being a real son I'd feel no qualms in taking out a contract on him.
2006-09-03 17:28:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋