2006-09-03 10:19:33 · 22 answers · asked by mia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only if you enjoy the pain of reopening old wounds. If you have a scar, try cutting it open and seeing how well it heals the second time, and there's your answer.
2006-09-03 10:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years ago, why would you want to contact him now, if he wanted to talk to you he would have, if you think contacting him will give you closer or help you move on, then do it. A little word from the wise, who has been there and done that...........you never hear what you are looking to hear. It just isn't going to happen. You may never know what went wrong just know that it wasn't meant to be. Sometimes people are what we think they are or we see them in ways they aren't and we fall in love withe idea of being in love. I think you can do this 2 different ways. 1-- move on and work on your self-esteem and be proud of yourself. Take the good things from past relationships and be happy. 2-- Stay in the past and keep thinking one day he will have answers and come back. Three years is a long time, you both have changed.....are you sure you want to go back, when your future is out there with open arms......just waiting for you !!!1 Good Luck
2006-09-03 10:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by tpepper22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know for certain that he knows how to get in touch with you, then I would say no, because if he wanted to talk to you he could. On the other hand, if you know he does not have a way to contact you, then maybe you could send one message. Then if he does not answer you will know he is not interested.
2006-09-03 10:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by nadine2548 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want to find out how his life went during those 3 years, then go ahead, but don't expect much from him. Just tell him that you are dating somebody at the moment and you wanted to find out if his life is as cool as yours now ;)
2006-09-03 10:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by zhinnka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to move on contacting exs usually will only lead to a very painful experience for 1 or both of you. especially after a 3 yr period in which both of you have changed and have many different influences in your lifes
2006-09-03 10:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by wiz of ia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you want him to think you're a crazy psycho.And it would probably make him feel pretty good that he had so much of an effect on you.
2006-09-03 10:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there ,
call the ex to achieve "what" thats the real issue.
good luck
Adrian
2006-09-03 10:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Do you want to hook up with him again? Why would want to? He left you and when he left he told you nothing. You know he might've been married or he was dating someone else.
2006-09-03 10:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by darkhunterfan65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship is definitely over leave the past in the past and move on to better grounds, he more than likely has and you will only hurt yourself.
2006-09-03 10:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by momof8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it but don't expect much in way of a response.
2006-09-03 10:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by τεκνον θεου 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋