Online friend of mine (he is NOT a stranger) exchanged numbers with me only to keep in touch when my internet cuts off...
now, he seems to text me so often, hasnt gone 4 days without texting me, and just now, he came back from work, telling me how his day was.........eventhough i didnt ask!
Just casual things like that about his everyday life...
i didnt expect this, dont know what he wants. It doesnt annoy me, i just dont understand what he's up to by texting to "often"....even he told me he wanted to "drop the odd text now and then" before he took it.
Been friends with him for 8 months now - ive told him directly that i dont want to "talk" to him on the phone because....i just dont.
So how come he is doing this? I didnt think this would happen.
2006-09-03 10:15:34 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He wants you darlin'... plain and simple... or he's just so needy that he has to someone to account to his every waking hour.
2006-09-03 10:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by someone s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 08:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-03 10:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a platonic relationship, then I don't really find his behaviour "strange". I often tell my friends the most mundane things about my life and going-ons simply because I don't have anything else to say. Vice-versa, too.
The only thing remotely strange about your situation is the fact that he texts you even though he said that he was going to stop. Maybe he just changed his mind.
2006-09-03 10:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Aimers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just needs someone to talk to, that's all. The stresses of daily life can be too much for some people to bear and they (he) just needs someone to vent them to. So by denying him this you are depriving someone of an avenue of release for the frustrations that occur during the working day. But saying that, if it is getting too much for you, tell him to go easy on you for a while.
2006-09-03 10:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is a stranger. You have not spoken to him, let alone met him!
I find this very strange behaviour on your part - and his.
Perhaps he is lonely or fallen in love with someone he doesn't know!
2006-09-03 10:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds lonely. This may be turning into a stalker situation if you are uncomfortable. He may not realize it though. In his own mind he may think you have shown him affection of some sort at some point.
2006-09-03 10:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by phantom stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it cude be he's had some trouble with family or he is so into u!!! just ask him 2 go 2 a moive BUT ask HIM wat he wants 2 c if he says u pick say no and if he procedes 2 go on say "we r not going now ______."
then in the blank put his name. post how it works.
2006-09-03 10:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is thinking thst he has a chance for sex, you should tell him straight out that you are not interested and stop opening his messages
2006-09-03 10:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by kandrewpace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you stop to think that there might be a reason, like mabye he just wants to talk to you, or he likes you, as in like like, im like that to the girl i like, except he she enjoys talkin to me :)
2006-09-03 10:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by josepwns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋