Only serious answers only please:
Ive been with a guy now for 2 years, have a baby together and we love each other heaps, the only thnig, we have great sex but he doesnt like to go down on me (if you know what i mean). He said hes only ever done this once on a woman and didnt enjoy it. What are others' veiws on this?
2006-09-03 10:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by fleurt82 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I can't *stand* doing it on my husband... but for him its part of forplay, so at times I grit my teeth, set my stomach, and do the icky deed. He always appreciates it, and he gets much more from our time together when I do, but he knows how I really feel about it so he doesn't enjoy it as much as he should. Would you really enjoy it if you knew he really disliked it but was doing it only to please you?
2006-09-03 10:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by MotherBear1975 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly some guys don't like going down on females just like some females don't like going down on guys. It's true. This happened to a friend of mine and she went on a strike of not having sex with him or going down on him. It worked and he likes to go down on her all the time when they have sex. You can either do this or ask him why? There is nothing wrong with and hope everything works out.
2006-09-03 17:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by College Gal21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just dont enjoy it, just like some girls dont enjoy it.. if your happy with how you 2 interact then you shouldnt worry about it... im sure you 2 are fine the way you are, i mean if you've been togetherfor 2 years and have a child things cant be too bad, dont pressure him to do anything he doesnt want to do.. you dont want to upset him...
2006-09-03 17:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love pleasuring my wife orally. after vaginal intercourse, oral sex is my next favorite activity. i have to admit that my first few attempts (30-35 years ago) sort of repulsed me. when i examined why, i came to the realization that i didn't like moving through her bush to get to her clit/vagina. consequently, i asked her to start shaving her bush and she did, if i'd do mine. i thought about it and finally consented. oral sex is a routine part of our love making. perhaps you can discuss with your husband what YOU can do to make him more comfortable performing an act that you know you enjoy. i'm sure he enjoys b/jobs. you have the right to enjoy cunnilingus. talk with him and good luck.
2006-09-03 21:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like, then don't pressure him into doing it. You've spent two years together and have a child now - don't stress over it if he satisfies you fully in other ways.
2006-09-03 17:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry But Sum Guys just Dnt like it.
i kno that wasnt much help!!
2006-09-03 18:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Razor G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys have a problem with it
make him do it or threaten him if he doesnt do it you wont have sex with him anymore
2006-09-03 17:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by kidwithshirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once bitten twice shy?
2006-09-03 17:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sucks for you
2006-09-03 18:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by mister w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋