Please help i made a huge mistake 2 weekends ago????????

Question

my bf and i are 18 me and him 19 and i was hoping to hold off on sex we have dated for 5 months and i had sex with one other bf and it resulted in a pregnancy scare and breakup. my bf and i went away on a camping trip before school started and well got caught up in the moment and forgot protection. i normally get my period last week of the month and i am worried. could i be pregnant hat are chances?

i am pretty regular give or take a day or so

should be here no later than this week but i have no signs

took one test but one came back neg. last came back faint very faint pos?

Answer 1

A normal couple not using protection has about a 20% chance of conception in any given month so those are about your odds too.

Answer 2

A very faint positive result is likely still positive. The first results of my pregnancy tests for both my pregnancies were very faint. Take another test first thing in the morning and call your doctor right away if you get a positive result. Unfortunately, it sounds like your irresponsibility has put you in a bit of a predicament. No more excuses. If you are not pregnant and don't want to be, USE PROTECTION. You always have an opportunity to stop what you are doing. Whether you are or are not pregnant, it sounds like you really need to grow up. Sorry for the lecture, but there are way too many unwanted children born to people who should not be parents, and it is usually the result of "getting caught up in the moment".

Answer 3

there is a very very good chance you could be pregnant. If you are late, take a home pregnancy test. If you find out you are pregnant, don't consider it to be a mistake. No child born on this earth is a mistake. However, if you are not pregnant, you need to be more careful. You do not want to be tied to this boy for the next 18 years, because you never know, it just might not work out, and an unexpected pregnancy could be what makes him run.

Answer 4

You may well be pregnant. You can have unprotected sex only once and still become pregnant. You should get a pregnancy test to confirm whether or not you are pregnant. You can either wait a little more to see if you get your period, or see a doctor. Always wear protection not only because you can get pregnant but also because there are many nasty STD's out there. Take care of yourself and try not to "get caught up in the moment". I know it's very tempting, but there are consequences if you do not take the proper precautions.

Answer 5

Go buy a pregnancy test NOW. The earlier the better. Then get tested for STD's, too. That way you can sleep at night if nothing comes of the tests.

34 years ago I was 19 and had sex for the first time and today I am a grandmother. Good luck.

Answer 6

There is a good chance you could be. The only way to be sure it to take a test. Their are Home pregnancy tests that you can take up to a week before your period. Try EPT. you can get it anywhere. If it is positive, go see a doctor. If not, be careful next time. If you are not ready to have a baby please take precautions or just abstain. I am a wife and Mom of 2. Kids are a blessing, but it is a full time job. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Congratulations mommy...you'll need..prenatal vitamins, better find a doctor..they are expensive..but worth it! If you can't afford it, there is always the free clinic...you gotta wait in line for hours with the other young mommies but they will eventually take care of you. Your gonna need diapers...and lots of them..since they are about $20 a box and they only last a day or two..you might want to get some cloth ones and just hand wash them all day long to save on the $100 per week bills for that...Lot's of formula..omg!! your 18 year old nipples will start to crack and bleed after a while so you'll want to use formula too...if your not wealthy yet, you can get that for free by getting on welfare...it's not that bad having to tear your coupons out of your booklet for cheese, milk, eggs, bread and formula..you'll get used to it. Baby furniture! Hopefully you have a few thousand dollars in savings for some decent safe furniture for your new baby...or maybe maybe your parents or the new babies other new grandparents will chip in and help. Lots' of new baby clothes!! or you can get tons of used ones at Goodwill...they always have great stuff! The good news is..you won't have to worry about getting in trouble on camping trips with your friends anymore...no more time for them! Best way to avoid all the snickering and name calling at school is to just get your GED privately for now, then go back to school once your kid is old enough to take care of himself..or you can afford decent childcare. You'll be fine! Congratulations again!!

Answer 8

Sometimes stress can make your period late so try not to freak out so much. Buy an EPT test (get him to help pay for it since it was the both of you who should have thought clearer) And for the love of Pete - ALWAYS keep protection or learn to have a stronger sense of the word "We can't because we don't have a condom" Pregnancy in this day and age is the least of your problems, you could be sentencing yourself to a lifetime of disease or worse - death due to STD's. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 9

this wasn't a mistake. this became a decision you made to your person motives. Calling it some thing else doesn' t replace it. you're untrue. Now you're making excuses so which you do not might desire to deal the effect out of your decision. through fact he hasn't had the stable experience to drop you, you may desire to comprehend that your decision is a robust indicator that considerable replace has got here approximately on your relationship. How long it fairly is been modern-day technique this modification is a query. does not rather matter variety. The replace is genuine and you may desire to stand it.

Answer 10

They say even the most fertile people only have a 20% chance of getting pregnant each month. Take a pregnancy test and cross your fingers.