2006-09-03 09:55:44 · 57 answers · asked by ajr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
keep on being a lose'r
2006-09-03 09:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL pay up! You have a lot of paying to do. Would investing in a condom really have broken your budget? Not to mention you were arrogant enough to believe you had the right to make the choice to have unprotected sex and risk infecting your wife because you can't control your penis!! Grow up little boy, the world doesn't revolve around that thing! Well yours does now and you are going to pay the price for a long, long time. That was one expensive piece of a s s, I hope it was worth it, although I can't imagine how it could be! What did it last 2 minutes maybe 5? And you are going to pay out the nose for 18 years, be considered a piece of crap by everyone that knows you and hopefully lose what little self respect you did have. LOL!
Your marriage is over and that will cost you, this isn't just an affair she'll have to get over, she would have to have this thrown in her face everyday for a long time to come, she would have to see income taken from your house to go the the one you knocked up and she'd have to put up with someone elses kid...ain't gonna happen! You are going to pay child support to the one you knocked up for the next 18 years. You play the fiddle you gotta dance........start dancing! Could you be any more pathetic a loser? Oh and you better tell her yourself before someone else does, because then she will consider you a whimp AND a loser! Although it is hard to imagine her thinking any less of you than she already will having her find out some other way is going to make it even worse. I recommend being EXTREMELY humble and apologetic and giving her anything she wants.
2006-09-03 10:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fist take her to the docter and make sure she is prgnant and not just trying to trap you. If she is prganant discuss with the pregnant one what you two are going to do about the baby.
Whether you guys decide to have the baby or not you must tell your wife. I would recommend seeing a counselor to maybe help her to trust you again and find out why you cheated in the first place.
2006-09-03 10:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Your in trouble. Some people can work past these kind of situations.You can expect your wife will hate you at first.Allow her to be angry she has every right. Whatever you do don't allow the other lady to disrespect your wife as that will only cause more pain. You should also start marriage counseling when your wife is ready assuming she actually forgives you.Good luck.
2006-09-03 10:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are a disrespectiful, low life, good for nothing, bastard that would do such. If you dont love your wife, which apparently you dont, leave her. Then screw around. As for the woman you screwed, if she knew you were married, she is also scum. Yea tell her what I said. If she didnt know you were married, Id leave your *** like you wife is going to do, and as far as the baby, you *** would go to the cleaners.
2006-09-03 10:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by latasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a jam.
Make sure this baby is yours before you sign the birth certificate. This will be a troubling time for you and you should propably tell your wife. She deserves to know.
Find out from the pregnant lady if she wants to have it. If not pay for the abortion.
Pray for guidance.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-03 10:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by retrodesignerdeals 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try doing the right thing this time.
Confirm the pregnancy, first of all.
Own up to your wife.
Take responsibility for the child, if one comes of this.
Get tested for AIDS to make sure you haven't infected anyone.
& above all,
if you don't want to be faithful to one woman, do everybody a favor, end your marriage, and just date.
I'd like to be more sympathetic but this time I find myself unable to feel bad for you when I think of your wife, the gf, and the unborn baby.
2006-09-03 10:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not call the producers of movies for the lifetime channel. I'm sure after your wife finds out you could get a film made all about you!
2006-09-03 10:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by cleaner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for god sake wear a damn rubber..ok..not fair, but come on now. You cheated on your spouse, and unless this women has no self respect she WILL dump you once she finds out. You have to grow up here and be honest and tell your wife, not only have you broken your marriage vows but hello!!..you could have given your wife a STD.....suck it up and tell her, if she stays or not you still have to provide and be a father to this new baby. Wow good luck!
2006-09-03 09:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not pay attention to his empty provides. in case you tell him which you're leaving he would be certain to vow you that "this time" he will leave his spouse. don't think it. he's only asserting that to get you maintain adequate to stay and him stay along with his spouse too. i'm sorry yet he can not leave her, and that i don't think of he's going to enable pass of you and not using a combat the two. i might say the main suitable way may be to loose all touch with him, yet now you have a toddler in touch. in case you could stay to tell the story with out any of his help then do it. get rid of him and finally end up a single guy this time.
2016-10-01 06:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right thing to do in my opinion, is to except responsibility for your actions. Now hold on and make sure you are the father. Because i think men and women both, can be irresponsible.
2006-09-03 10:10:48 · answer #11 · answered by wanttolpve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋