because that is all i see decent guys with is those skinny chicks with nothing but skin and bones
2006-09-03 09:11:36 · 21 answers · asked by wpm203 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, Slim is the word!!
2006-09-03 09:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Redeemed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. There was a study done that showed four silloutes of women of different body types. 1 was skin and bones. 4 was a chunky monkey. Most guys picked 2 and 3.
2006-09-03 16:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Froggbitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that at all. You see alot of skinny beautiful chicks with fat lazy guys... alot of skinny guys with fat lazy gals too.
There is a generalization that thin is beautiful... you see it in the magazines, you don't see fat models in vogue.
BUT there's a difference between skin-and-bones and healthy.
Personally, I'd rather be with someone fit and slim.
I take care of myself. I want someone who can keep up with me. And I think the way a person takes care of themselves transdends to how they take care of other things, if they're too lazy to get off the couch to keep themselves healthy, what else are they too lazy to do??
People are attracted to different things, I think your statement is too generalized. I walk around and see thin tall guys with short fat girls all the time (makes me wonder how sex works) ...
2006-09-03 16:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Many are closet chubby lovers that don't have the backbone to stand up to their friends.
I have been plus sized all my life but I can tell you this. I never have a problem finding a date. There are many men who find BBW's (Big Beautiful Women) attractive. Some men only date bigger women.
Be confident in who you are and how you carry yourself and dress. Confidence is sexy and men find that very attractive weather you are thin or heavy.
There are many sites who support BBW acceptance and there are dating sites as well such as www.bbwdatfinder.com
Try joining a BBW yahoo group in your area. They have dances and events you can attend and be around women and the men who admire BBW's
All in all take care of your appearance and learn to be happy with yourself and let your true beauty shine thru! Men come and go but you will always have yourself!
2006-09-03 16:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Spunkitty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so! I think that they want a woman that isn't obese and knows how to take care of herself because if she can't take care of herself how can she take care of him and a family. Dating is kind of like your job you have the first date and if you enjoy each others company and you continue to date and finally become a thing it's like you end up together and if things keep working out you may be his possible wife. I mean you have to be attracted to him and have to enjoy his company. Why would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you don't find attractive. I know that so many people say that the inside is what counts but how a person cares for themselves is a very important thing when it comes to a relationship. It is just human nature.
2006-09-03 16:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total package is more than a ratio of bust:waist:hips, although everyone has a preference in that ratio too. Face. Hair. Eyes. Personality. Sense of humor. Ability to tell a good story. Lack of body odor. No excess hair. Skinny may get a door opened, but total b itch will get that same door slammed back in your face regardless of how tiny your belly may be.
2006-09-03 16:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Chicks with nothing but skin and bones are not hot. It's really kinda gross if ya ask me. A girl can be full figured or somewhere in between, and still be amazingly sexy. Be true to yourself, and don't let what society potrays as sexy change who you are.
2006-09-03 16:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by pizzasjedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know men who love all different body types. If a man likes you he likes you regardless. I wouldn't want to be skin and bones for anyone. That's easy for me to say also because in my culture , black men usually like for a woman to have some meat on her bones. No one wants a bone but a dog. i also have plenty of men from ohter races who like me and flirt with me also. I think it's just a matter of personal preference.
2006-09-03 16:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look by skinny do you mean slim? Bcoz skinny is unhealthy and slim is healthy. You gotto workout regularly and make really toned up body its slim. Skinny is when you are malnourished. That obviously isnt attractive. And what good are babes without curves???No offence ofcourse. I was making a point.
2006-09-03 16:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, the superficial ones do. I am sure there are real guys out there. Decent, you mean decent looking? But where is their heart and their head? Keep looking and you will find a real man. Who wants a real woman.
2006-09-03 16:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you say decent? what makes them decent in your eyes? is it due to some prejudice you have about their appearance? it's a double edged sword...most women are more critical about looks than men.
but really it's like anything you can't have, the harder it is to get the more you want it.
some girls want to marry a doctor or lawyer, some guys want a girl with a nice physique....it's our western way.
some other cultures may like larger body types.
2006-09-03 16:13:28 · answer #11 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋