I have this great friend named Arianna. She's really smart, athletic, and nice to everyone! Thing is, i'm not really smart, athletic, or nice to people. Well ok I am pretty smart. :P
Anyway, we are good friends, and i trust her with my secrets. She trusts her other friends with her secrets, but doesn't trust me! I feel miffed. For example, she has this new crush from school (we are juniors in high school) and told her other friends. She said she's not telling me because i would just go around being annoying and asking people what they thought of 'him'.
I am NOT like that! I don't know why she doesn't trust me, cuz i have never lied to her before. I really feel left out and miffed.
How can i gain Arianna's trust?
2006-09-03 08:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by Smellydix4Bush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're telling us??
2006-09-03 09:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've 2 solutions! 1.) provide her time, let her heal. Whilst being friends you will achieve her trust, on it's possess. There could no longer be whatever so that you can do. She would no longer even understand what you can do for you to acquire the your believe back. 2.) proceed Being friends along with her. Nothing you provide her will acquire your believe except it's your friendship!! In the event you really worship and adore your friendship have her be there for you. Despite the fact that she would not believe you, you still can trust her exhibit her that. She can take delivery of that you just what to acquire the believe and she will. Be reliable to her and trust her. Revenge and now not trusting her due to the fact that she would not trust you is not excellent. Maintain her and believe her and he or she may believe you along the way in which! Exceptional of good fortune!!!
2016-08-09 13:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two answers! a million.) Give her time, allow her heal. While being peers you're going to achieve her believe, on it is possess. There would no longer be some thing so that you can do. She would no longer even recognize what you'll be able to do so that you can achieve the your believe again. two.) Continue Being peers together with her. Nothing you deliver her will achieve your believe except it's your friendship!! should you fairly worship and adore your friendship have her be there for you. Even regardless that she does not believe you, you continue to can believe her exhibit her that. She can receive that you simply what to achieve the believe and she is going to. Be riskless to her and believe her. Revenge and no longer trusting her seeing that she does not believe you isn't well. Care for her and believe her and she or he might believe you alongside the way in which! Best of good fortune!!!
2016-08-21 07:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 06:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to be trusted is simply to be trustworthy. And to be trustworthy one must allow others their privacy. If you were an acquaintance of mine and I knew that you would be miffed if I did not share my private thoughts with you, I would not trust you very much. I would decide that you felt I somehow owed you something that was entirely mine, which is the right to pick and choose with whom I will share the private parts of my life.
Arriana doesn't OWE you that and never will, no matter how much she trusts you.
WK
2006-09-03 09:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by olin1963 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. After you graduate you won't even speak to her anymore. Why stress about someone who doesn't even know the real you?
2006-09-03 09:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She don't trust you cause you put her bussines and name on the internet.
2006-09-03 09:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Asia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? send me e-mail to phillip11_92@hotmail.com
2006-09-03 09:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋