2006-09-03 08:53:47 · 11 answers · asked by hgbored 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you tried discussing this with your wife? Don't be a jackass about it though, there is more to a successful marriage than just sex. But that's not to say that sex comes to a screeching halt once you're married. I've been married about two years. Sex is still very much alive and well in our marriage. Just talk about it.
2006-09-03 09:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by pizzasjedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she doesn't want to have sex. Tell her that your sexual needs are important and that by refusing to have sex, she is refusing to love you. Tell her that you want to meet her needs and ask if you aren't meeting them. If she still doesn't have sex with you, tell her you need counseling (because if your own wife won't have sex with you, something needs to be worked on). Continue to show her love in ways she feels loved, hopefully she will show you love in ways you feel loved. Make sex romantic too every once in a while; women have sexual needs too but they tend to be different.
2006-09-03 23:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, it will get better. She is probably just extremly stressed out. I went through this exact situation early on in my marriage & pressing the issue just made it worse. Try & be as understanding as possible of her needs & feelings & it will be rewarding for you.
2006-09-03 15:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by jaystin4g63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on seducing her just as you would have before you were married
2006-09-03 16:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club!!! That is what married life is.
She isn't pregnant is she?
2006-09-03 15:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by mikeyob_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY was she like that b4 u got married?
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2006-09-03 18:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she is not wanting sex with you. Tell her to be honest with you that you want to know why.
2006-09-03 15:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it the mushstach wife's don't like the the mushstach
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2006-09-03 15:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by weather export 19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to married life....and if someone hasn't told you yet....not only does sex come to a grinding halt....but she's gonna get fat on you.
2006-09-03 16:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel ok and you do have needs. everyone does.
2006-09-03 19:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋