Okay my sisters boyfriend (we use to be very good friends, you know hang out everyday, then he got a girlfriend and I got a boyfriend, etc. he is now my sisters boyfriend). and I got into a huge fight today. He stays at our house a lot which I really do not care. But when I tell him something, he gets so pissed off. For example he would wash a single shirt and single pair of pants on a daily basis so I told him he needs to wash a load. That it is a waste of water, electricity, detergent, etc. to wash two pieces of clothing at a time. He throws a fit.
Incident today I just got my sister a credit card and I am the primary account holder. Well I paid $60 for a meal today and she paid $80 for the rest of the groceries for one meal today. Than her boyfriend left and got more food and spent I think $100, now this is for one meal. So I was upset and said that I do not want to pay for everyone's food. He starts yelling cursing me and left. below more details
2006-09-03 08:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by Angelcupcake 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He tells my sister to get another boyfriend.
What I do not understand is that my mother pays all of our bills. He does not pay any bills here. Sometimes he will pay for some food, etc. But my mother pays every living expense of my sister and I.
Don't I have a right to put my foot down when it comes to my money?
2006-09-03 08:50:03 · update #1
Respond to "I am bossy" :
I am 29, my mother bought this house for my sister and I.
2006-09-03 08:58:25 · update #2
He wanted bag of oysters, king crab legs, steak, and lobsters. I know EXPENSIVE and easy to want when it is someone else's money. But he also does buy this for them too. This is their normal meal.
2006-09-03 08:59:45 · update #3
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS LET HIM KNOW THAT HE CAN STAY AT HIS OWN HOUSE WITH ALL THAT BULL CAUSE HE'S IN YOUR HOUSE AND NOT PAYING ANY BILL'S AND ALSO LET HIM KNOW THAT THAT CREDIT CARD IS IN YOUR NAME AND YOU AIN'T HAVING IT ALSO LET YOUR SISTER KNOW THE SAME THING CAUSE YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO GET THAT CARD FOR HER
2006-09-03 08:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by CHRIS T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a free loader. And yes, he does have nerve complaining or catching a hissy fit. One question, how do you guys spend so much money on one meal? What are you eating? The one that needs to say something and put her foot down is your mother. She is paying all the bills.
You should have a heart to heart talk with your sister. Ask her what she thinks. How does she feel about him doing this?
2006-09-03 08:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First mistake was getting that credit card. Credit cards can be and usually are a nightmare. Second you need to kick his worthless butt out.
2006-09-03 08:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell his dumb a** to leave because him and his gf ( your sis) to find there own house.. becuase thats getting out of hand.. and how old r u??
2006-09-03 08:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he keeps on getting pissed off then dont hang around him just try to make a positive conversation.
2006-09-03 08:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, go to grammar school. i could barely get through all that
just tell him to stop being mean, or you'll kick him out!
2006-09-03 09:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Smellydix4Bush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviouisly... it is your fault for allowing him to stay.. Kick him to the curb
2006-09-03 08:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, he is the guy! he shud take your sister to his house feed her and give you your life back
2006-09-03 09:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats THE WAY OF OUR CULTURE,WE TAKE AND TAKE TILL THERE Ain't ,no more to take,then find Greener pastures,
2006-09-03 09:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by bull 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell his *** to leave
2006-09-03 08:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋