im worried becus wen i went 2 col i didn make friends till the las cupl of months an this is a 3 yr course at uni so im worried that if i dnt make a good start it will be hard for me to make friends!!
2006-09-03 08:46:21 · 13 answers · asked by ♥abi♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont worry everyone will be feeling like you!!
2006-09-03 08:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by betty_boop81xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I went to uni the first week was manic, you meet that many people in such a short space of time, especially if your in halls. If you speak to someone but realise that you dont have much in common etc thats ok, just move on to someone else. All I can say is just let yourself be open, everyone is in the same boat so dont worry. Just go out have a drink or 10, have a laugh, talk to randoms about what your doing at uni, where your from etc.. (trust me by the end you'll be so sick of everyone asking you).
The best think about uni has nothing to do with the course, I was a shy guy before I got there and just being there changed me so much, on so many levels, I cant really comprehend it. It gave me the confidence to emmigrate without knowing anyone where I was going!!
Trust me if you give it a chance you'll love it.
Goodluck!
2006-09-03 13:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister went to uni, and she had the same worries. If you're living at the university, then you'll soon make Friends on the campus, and even if you're not, you'll meet people in lectures. If you join clubs and things there, then you're bound to meet people and make Friends with them. It might take a few months for you to make Friends, but you will and good luck at un.
2006-09-03 08:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
University is just like college. The degree offered is just higher. Whatever you did to make friends in college is just what you do to make friends at a university. You will likely become part of study groups and some friendships may evolve from that. You can decide whether or not to join organized groups and may make friends that way. The primary focus is learning. Don't lose sight of that!
2006-09-03 08:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry relax a little, If you go in Halls you will be put with between 6-8 people all in the same boat as you and you automatically have new friends there then on your course you find new Friends simply because you have the course in common, then your flat mates do the same then they bring their Friends round and you meet them and you bring your friends and so it snowballs, both my boys had similar worries but they soon had new friends from all over the country.
Don't worry and good luck.
2006-09-03 08:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by angelcake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club that you are interested in. Its the best way to meet new people.
Your room mate will be your best friend for the time, each semester and every time, you get a new one, you will make a new circle of friends.
But, if you join a club, you will have people who are interested in things you are, and you can "network' from there, and make new friends.
Join the school paper or some other things, to meet new people.
You are only a face in the crowd if you want to be, or, you can talk to people and see where they are from, and glean new experiences that way, and new friends from all over the World.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-09-03 08:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember everyone is in same boat - if people ask if u wanna go out, go out and have fun! you'll find common ground in the fact that everyone around you has just left home most probably for the first time so dont worry bout it and have fun. Uni is best three years of your life!
2006-09-03 08:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is in the same boat and will feel the same, don't worry. Start with the same questions as everyone always does. What course are you on? where are you from? why did you choose this uni? just be yourself and be friendly and you will be fine
2006-09-03 08:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the exact same thing last year! seriously everyone is in the same boat and everyone will have a chat....just ask people where they're from etc and what course they're on, what music they like....everyone will be really nice!!! good luck!!!!
xx
2006-09-03 09:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by northukstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just introduce urself and say hi what courses r u taking and y and keep on just let the conversation flow.
2006-09-03 08:49:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋