About 2 or 3 years ago I met a girl online and soon enough became good friends, now she sends me IMs some saying how much she loves me, normal right?
I play along and tell her I love her, we've started talking and taking our smutty convos onto MSN and i enjoy it, what unnerves me though when she says she wants to do me if i lived in the US
2006-09-03 08:41:06 · 25 answers · asked by Bea 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lol I'm female before you ask
2006-09-03 08:42:14 · update #1
perhaps she didnt tell u that she was a lesbian until now u realised that shes hittin on u lol it is normal an isnt!! its normal cus thats wot lesbian gals will do 2 meet sum1 an it isnt normal cus its jus plain weird that she didn tell u she was a les an then hits on u!!
2006-09-03 08:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥abi♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble is online promotes a feeling of intimacy entirely divorced from reality. You don't know if she is actually quite mean, picks her nose or has other habits/ views that would have you running in the flesh.
The point is both of you felt safe because you were projecting your feelings on an empty screen/or a person who is more a figment of your imagination than flesh and blood. Now she has made you think of consequences, and made herself more of a 'real' person you might actually meet, so no wonder you have cold feet.
Fantasy relationships like this might feel harmless, (and usually are, until somebody decides to act on them) but you do need to ask yourself what it might lead to. Especially if you get to meet the other person. This is how paedophiles groom their vicitms, by creating a seemingly safe place.
2006-09-03 15:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by tagette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well where did you think it was going to go? you are both talking to eachother like that for that long and you dont think that at some point shes going to start saying stuff like that? I mean seriously, its obvious!! If you dont feel the same, tell her! It's unfair!! Plus wouldnt you rather have a real lesbian? (im not one by the way!!)
2006-09-03 15:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's a gay or something, try to know what she really feels even though that she's ur best friend, u shld let her know that ur not sorry 2 say this, tell that ur not gay.
2006-09-03 15:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are both enjoying your cyber lesbian friendship, no harm done but sounds like you are starting to get nervous
2006-09-03 16:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want to do you too if those conversations where taking place, but i probably wouldn't tell you i love you until i got to know you in person
2006-09-03 15:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by babygurl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You entered into the 'fun' go with the flow
2006-09-03 15:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by mise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is either just messin' around and playing with you Friend to Friend or she is totally gay its hard to tell ask her ?s to find out.
2006-09-03 15:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She just want excitment and a feeling of being wanted.
She doesn't really want to do it.
2006-09-03 15:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by LifeisGoood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does she say? amylovesemails@yahoo.com
i had a problem like this once. with a guy though. feel free to email me
2006-09-03 15:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋