2006-09-03 08:32:51 · 29 answers · asked by fantasyguy365 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think its advisable to have sex before marriage. Love making is one of the things that holds a marriage together. No two people can be closer than when they make love.
If sex between partners is fulfilling, chances are one or both will look for another partner to satisfy their needs.
Having sex before marriage won't assure you a successful marriage, but at least if you know the two of you are compatible and enjoy making love together, then you can work on other aspects of your married life to strengthen your bonds.
2006-09-03 16:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_n_friendly_0000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends.... are you going to have sex with the person you want to marry? When are you going to marry? If the wedding is soon, then wait, it will be a wonderful thing to consumate the marriage on your wedding night. That's a beautiful thing.
If you are not planning a marrying anytime soon, then that's up to you. Are you ready for sex? Are you mature enough to handle the consequences that are possible?
2006-09-03 08:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of ur personal values. It's defintiely a personal decision.
But whichever way you choose, keep in mind that you have to be 100% sure that ur partner is sexually healthy in that he/she doesn't have any sexually transmitted disease (genital warts, HIV...) Becuase the health of ur body is the most important thing. Don't let temporary lust to blind ur eye.
Sometimes he/she doesn't even know if they have it or not and they would say no (late on set) and so to be 100% sure, no sex until HIV and PEP test come out.
2006-09-03 08:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by LifeisGoood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly recommend it. Not only should you experience life and sex prior to marriage, but you should enter your marriage an experience lover. Further would it not SUCK to get married only to find out you and your spouse are not sexually compatible.
2006-09-03 09:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always thought it is a good idea. You can see if there is really true love there - or is it only an infatuation based on sex. You have to do what your own maoral standards tell you.
2006-09-03 08:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, for Pete's sake! Total strangers are telling you what to do about your sex life! That's a personal decision. Are you in a relationship? How does your partner feel about it? Make up your own mind -- or talk to someone in your life that you respect, and who cares about you. Why are you asking us?
2006-09-03 08:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you. I would want to check out the merchandise before I buy it. You might want to take it back lol. Make sure you use protection so you do not get pregnant.
2006-09-03 08:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly. have sex with different partners male and female. get a variety of sex so you know that when you are married your sex life is a constant boar
2006-09-03 08:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe in try before buy....if you did not you could end up getting married to somebody who did not please you in bed. i know sex is not everything in a relationship but it is important. 2 become 1. just a thought.
2006-09-03 08:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you ought to find out what you are expecting to spend a lifetime with.
2006-09-03 08:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋