I go to the gym like everyday and I always wear the cutest little short shorts and tops. Every time i'm there these guys purposely walk back and forth acting like they are doing stuff and exercising but they really just keep checking me out.
I'm only shy when it comes to being first to go up to a guy and start a conversation..
Why can't they just talk to me???
2006-09-03 08:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by misomeow 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
say hi and see if they respond and if they do just say goodbye and dont actually start a conversation becuz men think that u r flirting with them
2006-09-03 08:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Alan G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are intimidated by you. They believe your out of thier league. Find the guy you like and work up the courage to make the move. I know countless guys who never have approached a woman they really loved because they were totally convinced the girl would turn them down. What you are feeling is probably the same thing he is. Good luck to you.
2006-09-03 08:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by inluvwshana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 04:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you ask this same question like every week. Secondly, your going to the gym to workout and improve your health. Not pick up a screw buddy. You flaunt it and act like a little kid. So yeah, I understand why your not getting picked up. Your in the wrong setting, go to a corner at nite and wear that . You'll get more offers and actually make money doing it ! Good luck
2006-09-03 08:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Aren't you just full of yourself. You fantasize that they walk by to to check you out. If they were really interested they would have said something by now. Even if they do get to know you it probably wouldn't last long because you are too concieted and self centered. Oh, well, keep deluding yourself. lol
2006-09-03 08:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i totally have the same problem can anyone help me 2 with her answers?
2006-09-03 08:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time one of them goes by that you like, just smile and say,"hi." that should be enough.
2006-09-03 08:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are all married.
2006-09-03 08:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋