My I love my ex girlfriend. She really takes care of me. I have no complaints in that department. The problem is when she gets mad she goes crazy!! Its like the incredible hulk. Nice one minute but god forbid when he gets upset. The national guard must be called in. example, she threatened to throw herself out of my car while it was moving. I had to get a cop involved. Days later she took my advice and signed up for anger management sessions with a therapist in order to fix herself and not loose me. would you guys give it a chance? Females welcome to respond.
2006-09-03 08:16:38 · 18 answers · asked by johnblaze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she has problems but sounds like she wants to get better...give her a chance...
2006-09-03 08:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes .......If you love this person then you owe it to her and yourself to help her get better, try to help her with her anger.....Some people just explode into a rage. It is quite possible she has a seratonion inbalance and when she gets angry her brain overloads itself . I have a brother that was a freakin hothead ,when he got mad it was same thing he would be ready to kill ,(women are more dramatic and often say they are going to kill themself or toss themself out of a moving car, whatever the case maybe, its always ugly and dramatic) he went to a couple anger management classes ,they made he more mad..finally he went to a thearpist and discovered he had an imbalance that could be controlled with a pill. He hated the way he acted when he got mad and was often embarrased by his behavior or caused such a scene that the police were called. Now he is totally normal and a very great person to be around,where befor people didnt want to hang out that much just in case he freaked out, I think you should try to help .. But be realistic if it aint going nowhere then get the hell out before she does something so bad that you freak out and have to punch her or something..........good luck ........This woman clearly need a friend like you and some counseling .......
2006-09-03 08:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would. she obviously likes/ loves you enough to go and get help with these anger management sessions to start with. however for you to ask this question in the first place must mean your having quite a few problems in your relationship. personally i would give her a few months to improve her behaviour and show you that she really does want to change, if she doesn't then its not worth the hassle. remember... there are plenty more women out there and whilst it may feel like the end of the world if you do split up with her you may end up happier with another person in the future. Good luck. remember just give her a chance, hopefully she'll pull through.
2006-09-03 08:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm have no idea how old she is, this is just a thought. She might experience severe pre-menstrual syndrome (PMS). It is a real thing and strikes a person before the period starts. It causes a severe hormonal imbalance and creates the severe mood swings. Which in turns causes Cinderalla to become the Wicked Witch of the West. Does that sound like a possibility?
2006-09-03 08:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threatening to throw herself out of the car is not about anger, it's about control. Your ex is a control freak and needs help for that. Everything is about her, and if its not, she'll make sure it is by threatening to do ridiculous stuff like that (or actually doing it). Think about all of the other things she does -- I'd bet there are more examples of her need to control every situation.
2006-09-03 08:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would run far, and fast! She has issues. I wouldn't stick around and let myself be manipulated by someone who is so obviously unstable. You are not responsible fr her feelings. That's her job. She has you whipped for sure! You don't really have much good things to say about her, so I would recommend that you stop seeing her and move on. find a girl who is so cool to be around, and really makes you feel good.....so good you will want to brag to people about her.
2006-09-03 08:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is willing to try anger management therapy, then yes i would give it a chance. But if she ever tries to get out of therapy, then i would leave her.
2006-09-03 08:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by dogluver8906 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is taking action to get it under control, then give her a chance. But if she quits putting in the effort, then you need to talk ultimatums. It seems to me she desires to get better though, if she took your advice.
2006-09-03 08:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Annieo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she deserves a chance, and treatment. I noticed you said nothing about your behavior and not for one second will anyone believe you had no part in any of that.
2006-09-03 08:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by ppsutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, you love her and are trying to help her. I think you should give it a chance. Support her all the way.
2006-09-03 08:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋