2006-09-03 08:14:05 · 9 answers · asked by eternal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
eternal,
first off with out much info on whats going on and not trying to sound like a lunatic but when your married and somthing small turns big then you need not only to assum there is an unlying issue, but you just made a mistake yourself just now your husband is making a big deal out of somthing then you need to treat as such and get to the bottom of it. if you trivialize it your going to make it even bigger and your saying to your husband " i dont care what you think and i am setting the value on what is big and small in this relationship" take every concern to heart and treat it as if your saving your marriage and he should be the same way. asking this question in here not giving much info is only going to give you the feel answer you want not the truth and you need to seriousley reconsider whats realy the truth. what it appears to me and probably alot of people you are trying to validate lampooning your husband. i might be wrong and i know this will turn you off to my answer but treat each fight as if your saving your marriage or eventually you'll be the couple that will divorce over somthing like the toothpaste cap not being done right. i wish you all the luck in the world.
2006-09-03 08:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight with him while he's angry because he's not going to care what u are saying. Instead, give him time to calm down and discuss the issue with him. U should NOT remain quiet about it or not say anything about it. U have to get it resolved.
2006-09-03 15:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he calms down and then talk to him. Ask him why he got so angry about such a small thing. Tell him that you don't think it's worth fighting like that for such a minor thing. If he starts to get upset again, then tell him to stop and give him a real wet kiss and walk away.
2006-09-03 15:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I did nothing wrong I would get my point across. If he keeps on accusing me then I would just say believe what you want to believe and ignore him.
2006-09-03 15:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some dogs just bark. choose your battles. its the war that's important.
2006-09-03 15:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he calms down then talk to him
2006-09-03 15:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Carol W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LAY UP IN A CORNER AND BEG HIM NOT TO BEAT YOU IN YOUR HEAD AGAIN!!!
2006-09-03 15:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get naked and say "take my body"
2006-09-03 15:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by FOOL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what didn't you do?
2006-09-03 15:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋