2006-09-03 07:41:16 · 31 answers · asked by sassylouhen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
More than wouldn't, sadly.
2006-09-03 07:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed about having an affair with a married man. Why in the world would you want to be the "other" woman. Knowing that this man is sleeping with you then goes home to his wife and sleep with her. I am sure he's telling you how his marriage sucks and how his sex life at home is non-existant, but guess what, he's full of you know what..... why do I know...
Well, my husband had an affair on me. I gave him a chance and he did it again. He is recently history. I deserve so much more than that. Before I found out about it, we were having a wonderful sex life. We were doing everything together (or so it seemed). We were getting along, he was getting some every single day, sometimes more than once a day.
2006-09-03 14:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his wife's shoes.......what would you do?
Amazing how you could justify having an affair with a married guy to yourself. How can you have any respect for him, knowing he is so dishonest? How can you respect him knowing that if you were his wife, he would lie and cheat on you?
Maybe you lack self esteem and don't think you can get your own man, or maybe your ego needs a boost by stealing some other woman's man. Maybe you just don't think you deserve someone to fulfilll you.....and this man obviously can't do that. he is too narcissistic. Whatever the case, you lack empathy. Get some. It is the single most attractive quality in a human being.
2006-09-03 15:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my man back, but it seems he hasn't really given her up although I can't 100% prove it. Even when I was a tart before marriage I had a rule never to mess with another woman's man, because I knew how much I would be hurt by an affair, and I am. I would never go near a married man.
2006-09-04 09:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. I do not believe in going out with a married man. I would never take him back again specially when the trust is already broken.
2006-09-03 23:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me.
And why do you want him, you already know that he is a cheater. How can you trust him anyway, he might exchange you for a new model anytime.
His wife wants to work maybe on their marriage couse they have kids or maybe maybe because she really loves him, knows him, wants him.
Please find your own man. This man will never choose you.
2006-09-03 15:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sadaf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you end up with him. He won't seem so desirable when you are with him 24/7 and you are cleaning up after him, taking care of him when he is sick, and helping to pay his bills. You guys deserve each other.If she's smart - she will kick the cheating SOB to the curb and let him shack up with you. That will be the best you can expect. After all - what self-respecting man will ever marry someone with such low moral standards as you?
2006-09-03 14:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
.I'm a firm believer that you shouldn't start what can't be finished.
Most men do not leave their wives for their bit on the side (or whatever you care to call it) and the wives are prepared to try again because of financial and children reasons. You are just buying yourself and the other victims a lot of heartache.
Good luck for your future
2006-09-03 14:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by AndyPandy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking a big fat zero. But then again, I have high expectations of people and I'm not a woman. Maybe his wife is desperate to hold on to him. I don't know.
2006-09-03 14:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by solo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is chained to the porch doesn't mean he cant bark at the cars, but when he breaks loose and catches a car,,,he better just keep riding with it, cause theres no comin back to my porch.
2006-09-03 14:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by SeventiesChild 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a woman that would have taken her husband back.. after several affairs. God knows why..
2006-09-04 07:02:29 · answer #11 · answered by quay_grl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋